Muslim gfs sexual history bothers me

I’m currently dating a Muslim girl and am Muslim myself. My past sexual history and relationships have all been with Muslim females. My current gf just told me she’s had relationships in the past with white an black men which has completely put me of her I don’t know why this bothers me so much. I guess deep down I feel that her having made the choice to sleep with men who are not of the same race as a turn off. It feels as if she’s made a conscious choice to be with men outside her race and makes me feel she is only with me because it’s an obligation that she has to marry a Muslim man eventually rather than because she wants to be with me. Don’t know whether I should continue the relationship. Would appreciate feedback from Muslims only

I’m currently dating a Muslim girl and am Muslim myself. My past sexual history and relationships have all been with Muslim females. My current gf just told me she’s had relationships in the past with white an black men which has completely put me of her I don’t know why this bothers me so much. I guess deep down I feel that her having made the choice to sleep with men who are not of the same race as a turn off. It feels as if she’s made a conscious choice to be with men outside her race and makes me feel she is only with me because it’s an obligation that she has to marry a Muslim man eventually rather than because she wants to be with me. Don’t know whether I should continue the relationship. Would appreciate feedback from Muslims only

I’m currently dating a Muslim girl and am Muslim myself. My past sexual history and relationships have all been with Muslim females. My current gf just told me she’s had relationships in the past with white an black men which has completely put me of her I don’t know why this bothers me so much. I guess deep down I feel that her having made the choice to sleep with men who are not of the same race as a turn off. It feels as if she’s made a conscious choice to be with men outside her race and makes me feel she is only with me because it’s an obligation that she has to marry a Muslim man eventually rather than because she wants to be with me. Don’t know whether I should continue the relationship. Would appreciate feedback from Muslims only

Being muslim is not a race. You are aware that there are many black muslims right? There are also many white muslims. It sounds like your issue is that she may have dated non-religious people, rather than people of different races. If so, we can only assume that this is your insecurities projecting onto her - she's dating you because she likes you (I assume), but her honesty about her previous relationships has made you doubt yourself. I think you need to work on your own self-confidence rather than worry about her sexual past.

EDIT: I'm not a muslim, but I don't see how having muslim-only responses will help; I imagine most of them will scream HARAM rather than actually answer your questions.

i miss snape , your picture made me shed a tear

Lol break up with her. You'd be doing her a favour. She can definitely do better and you can go find a "Single Muslim female who only has past relationships with Muslim males".

Wont bother to offer advice, but imagine if someone posted this and it said white or Christian and they were complaining about someone having slept with a Muslim.

died. thought after you said break up with her you'd be on op's side. Then you smashed him .

Being muslim is not a race. You are aware that there are many black muslims right? There are also many white muslims. It sounds like your issue is that she may have dated non-religious people, rather than people of different races. If so, we can only assume that this is your insecurities projecting onto her - she's dating you because she likes you (I assume), but her honesty about her previous relationships has made you doubt yourself. I think you need to work on your own self-confidence rather than worry about her sexual past.

EDIT: I'm not a muslim, but I don't see how having muslim-only responses will help; I imagine most of them will scream HARAM rather than actually answer your questions.