Hi, I'm trying to fill out an extenuating circumstances form for uni first year exams but I'm not sure how to phrase things so things are taken seriously. My situation is a bit complicated.
I have been recently bereaved (early March), one of my close friends from school that I'd lost touch with in the last two years. However I'm not sure that's relevant. I think my grief is over.
My main issue is I had a really bad depressive episode in February and was asked if I wanted to interrupt my studies, but I didn't want to. I went to the uni psych who offered me meds which I refused but she referred me for CBT. My first CBT appt was two weeks ago (haven't had a session since because the counsellor has been ill fml).
3 weeks ago I wasn't coping, I was doing better than early feb, but I felt the need to go on antidepressants (realised something had to change or I wouldn't be able to complete my degree). So I was put on citalopram. This is going well but I still can't concentrate and it makes me really sleepy. I still have some really really low days.
Meanwhile my brother has been going through a major depressive episode since last year. (FYI, I'm 19, he's 16 soon.) He has psychotic episodes now and then and really violent visions. I won't go into much more detail than that as I don't think TSR allows discussion of that type of thing? (I've seen posts be removed for sensitive content I think?) Basically he is too ill to be in school, and they're talking about him doing exams at home maybe, that's the kind of seriousness we're talking.
So with all this going on, I've been doing my best to revise for exams but as they approach I'm realising I may fail them, simply because I don't have much energy and my memory and concentration aren't great. (My ability to do stuff fluctuates dramatically day to day.)
I really don't want to interrupt my studies, because I may pass this year (the grade this year is 1/10th my final degree grade). However if I have to resit w/o EC then I would have my mark capped at a pass, but I think my medication will really be helping me come the August / September exam session, and I could probably do a lot better than a pass. (I'm predicted a first based on my coursework and assessments earlier in the year.)
But basically I only have a tiny box on the EC form to summarise this, so what would be the key words to emphasise to summarise my situation? What would make the powers that be think, yeah we need to cut her some slack?
Thanks for any help xxx (I'm on anon because of details about my brother.)