Parents and Islam

Okay, I've posted threads before, I'm 17 year old muslim, and I've been constatnly threatened to be kicked out house when im 18. Now, the reason is outrageous. I talk back. And when I talk back they find it insulting that i tell them they are wrong. They cry etc about it. My parents are strict, I have never had a phone before, wifi had restiction (no games no facebook twitter, no youtube), and this is all becuase I mess up on one grade. I can't believe it myself. I did my AS and have A's so far. I just wanted to know

does this happen to you, or is my family overly strict
and what are my duties as a 17 year teenager male to my parents.

I do not swear at them, fight with them etc. I shout sometimes like every teenager does.

Also what my parents duties to me in Islam. I mean, they feed m and give me shelter (and brag about it), but I don't get those extra/ other stuff, like phones games facebook twitter etc). I am told when I am or am not allowed to go to friends house( haven't been for a year now).

Are you sure your not in a prison?

Okay, I've posted threads before, I'm 17 year old muslim, and I've been constatnly threatened to be kicked out house when im 18. Now, the reason is outrageous. I talk back. And when I talk back they find it insulting that i tell them they are wrong. They cry etc about it. My parents are strict, I have never had a phone before, wifi had restiction (no games no facebook twitter, no youtube), and this is all becuase I mess up on one grade. I can't believe it myself. I did my AS and have A's so far. I just wanted to know

does this happen to you, or is my family overly strict
and what are my duties as a 17 year teenager male to my parents.

I do not swear at them, fight with them etc. I shout sometimes like every teenager does.

Also what my parents duties to me in Islam. I mean, they feed m and give me shelter (and brag about it), but I don't get those extra/ other stuff, like phones games facebook twitter etc). I am told when I am or am not allowed to go to friends house( haven't been for a year now).

This might benefit you in the future. Just please them for now, then when you are ready, you can start your own life. Let this be a lesson. You will treat your kids inshallah. Have patience with your parents and Allah will have patience with you!

How is this relevant to Islam?

I'm a 17 year old muslim and i don't have that issue with my parents they do get extremely disappointed when i get bad grades but are always optimistic, but congrats on the A's. i also get lectures on how lucky i am but then again i do have a phone and get to see friends. your parent child relation ship is not great. when it comes to friends have you tried inviting them to your house? also know that what your dealing with isnt normal.

This might benefit you in the future. Just please them for now, then when you are ready, you can start your own life. Let this be a lesson. You will treat your kids inshallah. Have patience with your parents and Allah will have patience with you!

Okay, I've posted threads before, I'm 17 year old muslim, and I've been constatnly threatened to be kicked out house when im 18. Now, the reason is outrageous. I talk back. And when I talk back they find it insulting that i tell them they are wrong. They cry etc about it. My parents are strict, I have never had a phone before, wifi had restiction (no games no facebook twitter, no youtube), and this is all becuase I mess up on one grade. I can't believe it myself. I did my AS and have A's so far. I just wanted to know

does this happen to you, or is my family overly strict
and what are my duties as a 17 year teenager male to my parents.

I do not swear at them, fight with them etc. I shout sometimes like every teenager does.

Also what my parents duties to me in Islam. I mean, they feed m and give me shelter (and brag about it), but I don't get those extra/ other stuff, like phones games facebook twitter etc). I am told when I am or am not allowed to go to friends house( haven't been for a year now).

I was asking, in islam, what are my duties at a 17 year old male.
and what are my parents duties

Well in any religion, there should be mutual respect between parents and children. I suppose children should follow the rules that parents set, however, this doesn't mean that the parents can use this to become dictators. It seems that either your parents are way too strict or you're possibly not telling us the whole story. It's seems bizarre for a parent to threaten to kick their child out solely for arguing back.

Okay, I've posted threads before, I'm 17 year old muslim, and I've been constatnly threatened to be kicked out house when im 18. Now, the reason is outrageous. I talk back. And when I talk back they find it insulting that i tell them they are wrong. They cry etc about it. My parents are strict, I have never had a phone before, wifi had restiction (no games no facebook twitter, no youtube), and this is all becuase I mess up on one grade. I can't believe it myself. I did my AS and have A's so far. I just wanted to know

does this happen to you, or is my family overly strict
and what are my duties as a 17 year teenager male to my parents.

I do not swear at them, fight with them etc. I shout sometimes like every teenager does.

Also what my parents duties to me in Islam. I mean, they feed m and give me shelter (and brag about it), but I don't get those extra/ other stuff, like phones games facebook twitter etc). I am told when I am or am not allowed to go to friends house( haven't been for a year now).