Muslim and vibrators before marriage

I'm a 20 yr old female and have a very high sex drive, it's got to a point where I have to use sex toys such as vibrators. I'm aware masturbation is haram but I have no choice

Has anyone else done this

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Reply 1

Decipher

You need God!! Just recite these words with me "Vibrators are the devils spawn" stick to real men :biggrin:

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

dw about it im a muslim female and i do it
everyone has a test in life and will struggle with certian aspects of religion.

Reply 3

CTLeafez

Are you sure you can't shake this desire? :wink:

Nah but seriously, you should live YOUR life how YOU like, not how a 1,400 year old religion likes!

Reply 4

londinondi

Original post by CTLeafez

Are you sure you can't shake this desire? :wink:

Nah but seriously, you should live YOUR life how YOU like, not how a 1,400 year old religion likes!

the whole point if religion is to test by limiting but more and more now adays people get ahead of themselves 🤐😪

Reply 5

username4044858

Original post by Anonymous

I’m a Muslim guy with similar difficulties and whilst I feel guilty, it’s a coping mechanism and I don’t wanna think about it constantly so I just do it. PM me if u wanna talk about it

Reply 6

Anonymous #3

if masturbating stops you from having sex then do it

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by BDho

I’m a Muslim guy with similar difficulties and whilst I feel guilty, it’s a coping mechanism and I don’t wanna think about it constantly so I just do it. PM me if u wanna talk about it

You just do it???

Reply 8

username4044858

Original post by Anonymous

You just do it???

It= self please

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by BDho

It= self please

So you actually have sex with girls ?

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

Original post by londinondi

the whole point if religion is to test by limiting but more and more now adays people get ahead of themselves 🤐😪

That's very true, but living in this society there are just so many temptations every where

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

I am a Muslim girl, now 24 I committed zina as a teenager and till this day I regret it. My advice would be just do whatever you need to but do not go onto having sex prior marriage

Reply 12

Nouf.

Original post by Anonymous

I am a Muslim girl, now 24 I committed zina as a teenager and till this day I regret it. My advice would be just do whatever you need to but do not go onto having sex prior marriage

😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dying
Committed “zina”

Reply 13

retro_turtles

Original post by BDho

I’m a Muslim guy with similar difficulties and whilst I feel guilty, it’s a coping mechanism and I don’t wanna think about it constantly so I just do it. PM me if u wanna talk about it

a muslim guy and girl chatting about masturbation...rahhh

Reply 14

Nouf.

Original post by Anonymous

Haram 😂😂😂😂😂
Just do it for Allah’s sake

Reply 15

Anonymous #4

Original post by Anonymous

That's very true, but living in this society there are just so many temptations every where

Hi. I’m also a muslim girl who masturbates but I don’t use vibrators to do it. What do you mean that you have no choice? I’ve learnt to not make public threads like this if it especially isn’t on ISOC because people will convice you that you should just do it. Take a cold shower, get busy and sleep early. I’m also trying to stop it.

Reply 16

Anonymous #4

Original post by Nouf.

😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dying
Committed “zina”

You have a weird sense of humour because that wasn’t funny in the slightest...

Reply 17

username4044858

Original post by Anonymous

So you actually have sex with girls ?

No. Do it to myself. Zina is a step too far

Reply 18

username4044858

Original post by Anonymous

I am a Muslim girl, now 24 I committed zina as a teenager and till this day I regret it. My advice would be just do whatever you need to but do not go onto having sex prior marriage

Thought you were 20?

Reply 19

Anonymous #5

g ik how hard it is, ive had girls throw themselves at me and want sex and to turn away is so difficult but you need to do it and im negl i do masturbate nd ik its bad but just control yourself, like you actually can, read surahs and avoid being alone when your horny additionally non muslims dont know how it is to be muslim so when they say 'just do it' they dont know what the repercussions are in our religion. its a test from god,you need to pass.