So this is something that's been playing over in my head all day and I just wanted to get another persons view because I might be overreacting.
Today I had a meeting with a careers advisor for my possible new school. I emailed him a few weeks ago and he got back to me within a few hours to arrange an appointment. I couldn't make it until today due to a family issue but he didn't mind.
I went to the appointment today right on time because I had been excited to pick my a levels for a few months now. I gave him my gcse results and he said that there wasn't much opinions for me. Additional science B , Core Science C, Additional Math C , Religion A* , Business studies B, English Language C, English lit C , Drama B and Childcare C. He basically said I would struggle at a levels since I didn't have the grades of a student who usually passes. He told me Btec was a route I needed to consider.
What really puzzles me about this is the entry to the collage is a minimum of 3 passes at GCSE. So i was shocked he said I should be considering a vocational route.
After this my nerves went through the roof because he was basically ridiculing my marks that I worked hard for. He was saying something about doing health and social care and I stopped him and said "I started that course i couldn't finish it because..." and he told me not to interrupt him when he was speaking. I get that some people find it annoying when people interrupt them but I told him at the start I hated health and social care because I struggled with it.
Another thing was after he was talking about my grades I felt really deflated and I tried not to let that show but he noticed and leaned back in his chair and says "why are you getting upset over this" and i just tried my best to convince him I was fine because I needed out of there.
Throughout the conversation i started feeling worse and worse and it took me longer to process what he was saying so he kept saying "are you listening to what i'm saying or will i say it again?" and the more he would say stuff like this the worse it got for me.
There was a few other things like him getting insulted at the fact I misspoke and called an apprenticeship an "internship." I'm not going to write much more because this is already a bloody essay. At the end of it I still said thank you for taking time out of your day to see me. But honestly I had just wished I stayed in bed and not bothered going to see him because it's made things worse.
A/N i have autism which undoubtably contributed to how bad things got for me. I'm still crying over the way he said some things to me. I know it is his job to give advise and I'm more than likely the one in the wrong I just can't process what happened.