Social media dating

"to get them"?



They shouldn't, tbh. You come across like a massive ****

to get them interested?

Depends how thirsty/ emotionally mature both parties are

Messages range from bland introductions to genuine interests in their hobbies/subject matters

How do you jump topics lol all we discussed about is holidays for 2 days but we only sent like 4 messages and i need to keep the conversation flowing

if you're asking questions and keeping it interesting and personal yet they dont ask questions back - maybe they're not interested?

for topic changes just use a key word eg they said:

'yeah Im going to Spain this summer to see family'

you can say
'so do you like Spanish food'
'what are your family like in Spain'
'are Spanish ppl very different'
'where do you want to live later in life'
' are you more of a summer than winter person then'
'have you seen Spain in the world cup'

etc - all use Spain as the keyword/idea

or you can just make an honest blatant change and say

'sudden subject change but what do you think about x /how do you feel about x etc'

having the honesty and confidence to just state you're changing the subject can work too

if you're asking questions and keeping it interesting and personal yet they dont ask questions back - maybe they're not interested?

for topic changes just use a key word eg they said:

'yeah Im going to Spain this summer to see family'

you can say
'so do you like Spanish food'
'what are your family like in Spain'
'are Spanish ppl very different'
'where do you want to live later in life'
' are you more of a summer than winter person then'
'have you seen Spain in the world cup'

etc - all use Spain as the keyword/idea

or you can just make an honest blatant change and say

'sudden subject change but what do you think about x /how do you feel about x etc'

having the honesty and confidence to just state you're changing the subject can work too

How would you close it off like randomly put it out there you want to meet?