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I send nudes of myself and she blocked me

Someone help I send two nude videos of me and I had a VPN and stuff at the time and deleted all my accounts associated. It was on Kik and she's a stranger and asked for nudes bc she's horny and never sent a hers to me I deleted the messages but I'm not sure if she did. It says she 14 in new York but I'm not sure and I think she's gonna have them posted because I did hesitate and I had my face on there I might change how I look drastically please help I've always been clean and idk what to do!!!!! I'm between age 13 to 15.
Reply 1
Okay well this is a fine example of why you don't send nudes, especially to strangers. For all you know they could be a 50 year old man, who could potentially sell your photos. Im not trying to scare you, but this is the reality of it (and hopefully persuading you not to do it again). The best thing to do is tell somebody you trust, it might be awkward and upsetting telling a parent, but tell a teacher. Your parents will be mad, but its only because they love you and they want you to be safe. Just tell somebody, and they can get this sorted out for you.
Reply 2
You're between the ages of 13-15, which one is it? Do you not know?

Secondly, sending nudes to an underage person is illegal. Not a lot you can do but hope it's not a cop.
It was probably a fake account, just for possessing the images they can be prosecuted for possession child pornography (distribution if they share them online) Most likely some old man who will be ******* over you for a couple days :s-smilie: Why did you give us a range for your age? :biggrin:
probably going to try and black mail your or something

dw there are literally millions of nude photos online, you cant be identified
Reply 5
If you are between 13 and 15, you are going to look different in a few years, so people probably wont recognize you.
Also, do you know how many nudes there are on the internet? No one will care about yours.
Most people don't even watch that sort of things. If you are walking on the street, no one is going to point you out and say "There goes the nude guy!"

The best thing now is to stop worrying and start working towards the future to make yourself a better person than you were the day before. You may also want to tell your parents, or teachers.
People make mistakes all the time. This has helped you learn and mature a lot.
I myself have made huge mistakes in the past (not like yours, but they may get me into trouble), but I have learnt that I need to stop worrying about other people and what they do.
There will always be bad things in life. However, if you are able to overcome obstacles, there is no reason why you cannot be a great person.

99% of the time, people worry for no reason and it just wastes time. I can say this as I once spent 5 months worrying about what happened due to my mistake, and nothing actually happened.

Spend your time on learning something new and become a stronger person.
The more tough situations you get through, the stronger you will be mentally, and that is very helpful in life
Original post by Anonymous
Someone help I send two nude videos of me and I had a VPN and stuff at the time and deleted all my accounts associated. It was on Kik and she's a stranger and asked for nudes bc she's horny and never sent a hers to me I deleted the messages but I'm not sure if she did. It says she 14 in new York but I'm not sure and I think she's gonna have them posted because I did hesitate and I had my face on there I might change how I look drastically please help I've always been clean and idk what to do!!!!! I'm between age 13 to 15.


There's nothing you can do except hope nothing happens. You sent nude images to an underage girl (assuming it is a girl and not the police or a creepy older person pretending to be 14) - they are out of your control now.

Do not do it again.
Reply 7
Thank you guys! I will not do it again! I do feel alot better now. Much love to you all
I posted this guys and thanks so much! I feel so much better now and won't do this ever again! I put a range bc I was super worried about being caught lol. Much love to you all
And one more thing, it was a video, two of them that that make a difference? She asked me to do weird stuffs thx
It wasnt a girl you sent that too lol
Idiot.
Don't send nudes when underage
None of you 3 people are helping oof
Adult person weighing in here.

There's a good chance this was a creepy old dude (or woman). If that's the case, I'm really sorry to say that it's very possible your images are going to be added to a bank of underage content. There are some real creeps on the internet, and they're opportunists.

You are 14(ish). If this is the case, you are NOT to blame. You are a minor. We all make mistakes.

EQUALLY it really could be a teenage girl who flipped out. I hope it's the latter.

I'm not sure what the situation is, but assuming you feel too awkward to speak to any trusted adults, you could anonymously contact the police and ask them for advice. I'm not sure what the limitations of the police are in your country, but you never know, they might be able to locate the messages and prevent your personal content from being circulated.

However, if your content is circulated, you can rest assured that if it's ever found by the police, the content originator will be prosecuted on a number of charges. Things like this are taken VERY seriously.
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