Girlfriend cheated on me

My girfriend got really drunk and had sex with a random guy on a night out, she blames drink and seems to be devastated by everything that has happened. But she still can’t give me any other reason than drink. This is tearing me apart what do I do?

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Reply 1

Anonymous #2

She needs to go man, drinking is no excuse, It’ll just happen again. Do yourself a favor and kick her out the door now!

Reply 2

Trapmoneybenny

Original post by Anonymous

Dude. Let her go, drinking isn't an excuse. We all know losing control leaves us in compromising positions and she put herself there.

Reply 3

DrawTheLine

Break up with her. You don't suddenly forget you're in a relationship when you're drunk.

Reply 4

999tigger

Original post by Anonymous

Your life and relationship. Do you want to carry on> If so forgive her and move on.
Personally I dont believe in the drink excuse., shed have to be worth the effort to try and carry on. Things have changed now one way or the other.

Reply 5

StriderHort

Well she's basically telling you it'll happen again the next time she has a drink.

Reply 6

Doctor Robert

Original post by Anonymous

She still cheated. She chose to consume so much drink.

Reply 7

IQuitTSR

oh yeah man report her to the exam board

she'll be disqualified but it's fair for everyone

Reply 8

Zamestaneh

Original post by Anonymous

1. Get her to quit alcohol because drinking alcohol is more damaging to society than taking drugs.

2. You also quit alcohol because drinking alcohol is more damaging to society than taking drugs.

3. Leave her.

4. Get an arranged marriage, innit.

Reply 9

SMEGGGY

Dump her, drink is not an excuse.

Reply 10

IQuitTSR

Original post by Zamestaneh

oh I thought she cheated on an exam

lol

:^) I agree with the alcohol part

Reply 11

Colin Munro

what should you do? Find a new girlfriend who doesn't drop her pants whenever she is drunk

Reply 12

IQuitTSR

Original post by Anonymous

looking from the replies drink is is actually alcoholic drink, yea thought it's water/juice/soda.

yk lemme tell you the story of a young boy who was cheated many times before (also exam-wise but that's B-sides the point bro)

half of the cheating excuses was from ethanol (what makes people drunk bro), since this is toxic lol I don't get why people still drink that stuff. geez it's a slow poison but still a powerful one.

then he got married cuz girlfriends are more likely to cheat than wives (plus you can always divorce, it's like breaking-up anyways). I think that's caused by the officiality and stuff. So prolly if you don't want that cheating stuff to happen again then do that :P.

So now you have 2 options:
-4give and give ONE LAST AND ONLY ONE chance
-Break-up

your choice bro

Reply 13

Vascillious

Original post by Anonymous

Just split up gently so neither of you get hurt. It could be "Thanks, but we can't date anymore after this".

If your'e at Uni relationships can be horrendously ephemeral things which feel like everything that matter to you at the time, but can end suddenly amidst the excitement and opportunity of university life.

For this reason, being at all clingy at University can be devastating if you let something mean a lot to you.

It really pays to be super cool and say "Thanks, but you're' not for me" and don't look back, just get on with other things you can rely on, even if it's just work.

Reply 14

JackMac2904

I feel so sorry for you, I know I would be devastated if my girlfriend did this :frown:

. I know personally when I do go to uni next year, I wouldn't dream of cheating and I definitely wouldn't let alcohol hurt the person I love, if she can't do something as simple as that (yes, not cheating is pretty simple, alcohol is a lousy excuse), then she ain't worth it i'm affraid.