Is this right? I need advice with my relationship

I’m still very confused with my relationship. This is my first relationship and I’m literally being the best boyfriend I could be, I know this because every is telling me (other than my GF)! I don’t really know what to do because we’re both at different stages in the ‘love ladder’. I feel like she could go a solid month without seeing me whereas I miss her even after a day of not seeing her. We don’t see each other a lot anyway and there is time for us to be able to, however I’m the only one who’s willing to use that time. I am massively attracted towards her but I can tell that she’s not the same, which is concerning because you would kind of expect to be physically attracted with your partner. Whenever I try and flirt with her or even compliment her she’s either: oblivious to it, doesn’t play along or just completely puts it off. When we see each other I always go in for a kiss and she just goes for a hug. One minute she’ll say that she adores me or will platonically say ‘love you/LY’ but never actually shows it. She doesn’t believe me whenever I show some sort of affection towards her and it proper knocks my confidence. She just doesn’t act like I thought a girlfriend would I.e shows affection, shows they care, wants to see/talk to you, etc.

Can someone please give me some advice? Is this what a girl/girlfriend is like in the first couple of months? Ask whatever you need to know. Thanks

I’m still very confused with my relationship. This is my first relationship and I’m literally being the best boyfriend I could be, I know this because every is telling me (other than my GF)! I don’t really know what to do because we’re both at different stages in the ‘love ladder’. I feel like she could go a solid month without seeing me whereas I miss her even after a day of not seeing her. We don’t see each other a lot anyway and there is time for us to be able to, however I’m the only one who’s willing to use that time. I am massively attracted towards her but I can tell that she’s not the same, which is concerning because you would kind of expect to be physically attracted with your partner. Whenever I try and flirt with her or even compliment her she’s either: oblivious to it, doesn’t play along or just completely puts it off. When we see each other I always go in for a kiss and she just goes for a hug. One minute she’ll say that she adores me or will platonically say ‘love you/LY’ but never actually shows it. She doesn’t believe me whenever I show some sort of affection towards her and it proper knocks my confidence. She just doesn’t act like I thought a girlfriend would I.e shows affection, shows they care, wants to see/talk to you, etc.

Can someone please give me some advice? Is this what a girl/girlfriend is like in the first couple of months? Ask whatever you need to know. Thanks

I’m still very confused with my relationship. This is my first relationship and I’m literally being the best boyfriend I could be, I know this because every is telling me (other than my GF)! I don’t really know what to do because we’re both at different stages in the ‘love ladder’. I feel like she could go a solid month without seeing me whereas I miss her even after a day of not seeing her. We don’t see each other a lot anyway and there is time for us to be able to, however I’m the only one who’s willing to use that time. I am massively attracted towards her but I can tell that she’s not the same, which is concerning because you would kind of expect to be physically attracted with your partner. Whenever I try and flirt with her or even compliment her she’s either: oblivious to it, doesn’t play along or just completely puts it off. When we see each other I always go in for a kiss and she just goes for a hug. One minute she’ll say that she adores me or will platonically say ‘love you/LY’ but never actually shows it. She doesn’t believe me whenever I show some sort of affection towards her and it proper knocks my confidence. She just doesn’t act like I thought a girlfriend would I.e shows affection, shows they care, wants to see/talk to you, etc.

Can someone please give me some advice? Is this what a girl/girlfriend is like in the first couple of months? Ask whatever you need to know. Thanks

The first few months of a relationship is the honeymoon phase and in that time you're usually inseparable and showing a lot of affection. Perhaps she's just shy.

Next time she refuses a kiss, just ask her nicely if she's not comfortable with that yet.