Should i marry/date him (he is 30 years older)?

Marry him, manipulate him, take all his money and then leave him. Good luck

It sounds like you want to marry him to take advantage of him - not because you've an interest in him. So no. Let him find someone else who actually cares about him.

And he wants to marry me because i have a young body, that pedophile followed me for 4 four years. Also love is not the only reason people get married. Another thing i am not a liar i will be honest with him. And lastly its only if he wants.

Honestly I think this is ridiculous.

1. You don't even love the guy (my assumption) your tone in your writing shows no affection for him.
2. If you do have affection for him then it's only for his money
3. Are you just waiting for him to die off?

You're just as bad as him, OP. Maybe you should get with him so you don't inflict yourself on anyone else.

😂😂😂Hey! better not leak her secret plan out to everyone!!!

Marry him, manipulate him, take all his money and then leave him. Good luck

-No i dont love him (he knows it and i am not planning to lie), maybe i will like/fall for him in the future.

-i will not force him of course. Its only if he is still interested in me.

-no, its not my plan to wait for him to die that is cruel. I just want a better life and if i decide to marry him then i will treat him like i would have treated any other guy i married.











Lol dont you not know that you should not judge a book by its cover? You dont even know what i am planning or what i am thinking and you began to judge. Unintelligent/ignorant of you.





Its the same as marrying someone for their beauty or personality.



Did i say that is my plan?

That is cruel. Maybe something you would have done. If i am going to marry him i will be loyal and good to him as i will to any other man.

Yes (unless he's super ugly, or creepy). Your own comfort and financial security should be your top priority. You can always sleep with other people behind his back, too.

Some people unlike you are actualy loyal

Imo, your own happiness should always be your top priority. Sometimes that can mean not being loyal.

Well I am more than happy being loyal to my girlfriend

Nothing wrong with that, I'm not telling you to cheat.

Do you have no people around your own age Ani33? People who are perhaps less wealthy but where the relationship is more healthy and equal. Also, a more normal relationship would be healthier for your psychological health as you'll be able to communicate and understand each other equally well and there will be respect in the relationship. I am not judging, if you feel this is the best opportunity for you then feel free, but if there is a chance in the future you can meet someone who perhaps, better matched for you then closing the door on that might seem a little hasty.

The vast majority of 16 to 22 year old men are terrible people to have romatic relationships from a psychological health point of view.

As at that age, most men are hopeless due to a lack of maturity and experience. Too much insecurity / cheating / controlling / abusive / selfish / obnoxious / immature behaviour.

The average 16 to 22 year old man is a great source of stress and heartbreak for their girlfriends.
There is rarely any equality in a relationship with a 16 to 22 year old man, because generally they are too focused on pleasing themselves.

Four years ago i met a man (business man), he and my father knew each other. He came to my father's funeral.

What do you think?

Do you have no people around your own age Ani33? People who are perhaps less wealthy but where the relationship is more healthy and equal. Also, a more normal relationship would be healthier for your psychological health as you'll be able to communicate and understand each other equally well and there will be respect in the relationship. I am not judging, if you feel this is the best opportunity for you then feel free, but if there is a chance in the future you can meet someone who perhaps, better matched for you then closing the door on that might seem a little hasty.