bf keeps trying to put it in my bum

dumb your porn sick boyfriend anal is not pleasurable for women and do not be pressured into this ask him is he minds being pegged first? men have their prostate up there so it would actually be pleasurble for him he will soon change his tune. Honestly dont let him guilt you sounds like he watches to much porn. Ask your self why he wants you to participate in a sex act you wouldnt enjoy?

It's the pantomine season. So: oh yes it is!!

Behind you!!


Anal is highly pleasurable and is a great way to give women very strong orgasms.
When it's done right.

please dont listen to pathetic porn sick men who have proberly never given any woman an oragsm and learned everything they no about sex from porn

Would you like to speak to my last 4 girlfriends and ask them about it?

I'm only passing on what they've told me.

It's not my fault if you've never done anal properly and therefore have no idea what you are talking about.

lmaooooooo k babe ill be sure to ask your last 4 girlfriends who im sure you gave plennnnty of orgasms to

please dont listen to pathetic porn sick men who have proberly never given any woman an oragsm and learned everything they no about sex from porn

The sad fact of the matter - and this is an ongoing theme of my posts on this forum - is that it's not difficult for any man to help any woman (of able body and mind) to have orgasms often enough with a reasonable proportion of them being strong one or multiple ones. But, there are far too many men that can't or don't do this.

The OP's boyfriend - from what we've been told so far - appears to be another man with unsatisfactory love making skills.

The Dunning Kruger effect applies to too many men when it comes to their love-making ability.

This general level of love-making ability from men also leads to a lowering of expectations amongst women. To the point where you have people like radbir who are convinced that certain potentially highly pleasurable sex acts for women are not pleasurable for them. With anal, do it wrong and it's a pain in the butt. Do it right and it's a strong orgasm. You can learn how to do it right in 5 minutes. And that's just one example. There are other orgasm inducing love making techniques involving the vaginal area that can be learnt in 5 to 20 minutes.

Lmaoo your so delusional and clearly dont understand womens biology. Your literally trying to explain to me how women work. For women there is nothing to gain from anal there is nothing there to give women pleasure. Maybe if she is also reciveving clitoral stimulation she could get some sense of pleasure but this is not from the anal and as the vast vast majority of women do not want or like anal its unlikely she would be able to feel much pleassure. This is just biology honeslty your just embarrassing to listen to with this **** :'

Lmaoo your so delusional and clearly dont understand womens biology. Your literally trying to explain to me how women work. For women there is nothing to gain from anal there is nothing there to give women pleasure. Maybe if she is also reciveving clitoral stimulation she could get some sense of pleasure but this is not from the anal and as the vast vast majority of women do not want or like anal its unlikely she would be able to feel much pleassure. This is just biology honeslty your just embarrassing to listen to with this **** :')

Tell him no emphatically and that you will never do it. If he keeps trying to force you or if he keeps pestering you, then just dump him. He sounds like an immature a-hole anyway.

so basically my bf every time we have sex keeps trying to put it in my bum at first he would say sorry and that it was an accident but then recently he said he wanted to have anal sex I said no I would not be comfortable with it and he got into a hissy fit and he keeps pestering me, I don't want to finish it but he is annoying me by asking so much that it is putting me off having sex all together, advice?

so basically my bf every time we have sex keeps trying to put it in my bum at first he would say sorry and that it was an accident but then recently he said he wanted to have anal sex I said no I would not be comfortable with it and he got into a hissy fit and he keeps pestering me, I don't want to finish it but he is annoying me by asking so much that it is putting me off having sex all together, advice?