18 and never had a girlfriend HELP

Ray_Shadows

reeeeeeeeeeeeee

i'm gonna be single 4ever , someone help

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Reply 1

ddsizebra

im 22 and single. my life is way too busy for that

Reply 2

Lisforlexi

What do you think's the reason? I mean, do you portray yourself as the 'friendly guy' and get friendzoned by the girls you like? Or do you just not meet many girls? Should probably start with working out where you've gone wrong if you wanna get into dating lmao. It's nothing to be worried about, maybe you just need to put yourself out there a bit more. Any friends you can ask to set you up with someone?

Reply 3

Ray_Shadows

Original post by ddsizebra

im 22 and single. my life is way too busy for that

Original post by Lisforlexi

i'm just so lonely idk what im doing wrong in life , heeeeeeeelpppppp

Reply 4

username2657095

Go out and socialise and try to meet people, or try dating apps. You’re not going to be single forever, and honestly relationships start really unexpectedly. I wouldn’t suggest dating just so you stop feeling lonely tho. Feel comfortable with yourself first, before looking for a partner.

Reply 5

Lisforlexi

Original post by Ray_Shadows

i'm just so lonely idk what im doing wrong in life , heeeeeeeelpppppp

How are you socially? To put it bluntly, do you have many friends? Might just be a social problem not and issue with dating or romantic stuff. I've had a handful of relationships and have met most of them online, through friends. You could try meeting people online who have similar interests? Be safe though, don't trust anyone :wink:

Reply 6

travelcollegeguy

again i have said this before and will say it again. Don't see girls as potential; girlfriends. see them as friends, get to know them. Be kind. Hang out.

Reply 7

04MR17

Volunteer Section Leader

18 years when you're mostly a child is very different to forever.

You will meet the right one. :smile:

Try not to worry about it, it's not an expectation of anyone for you to get a partner, and certainly no deadline.

Reply 8

Analyst89

Hey, you're only 18 years old!

You have plenty of time to experience that :smile:

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Don't worry, develop your self confidence, focus on your future, do things that make you happy, enjoy life, go out with your friends.

You can try online dating, speed dating, joining clubs out of interest, meeting females at bars, coffee shops, through education, work, through your network, social circle and approaching them.

Be your best self, dress well, groom well, have a good hairstyle, relax.

In time, you'll meet the right one.

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because ur muslim

Volunteer Section Leader

Original post by Rainfall

because ur muslim

What does religion have to do with it?!

Reply 11

username3890778

Original post by 04MR17

What does religion have to do with it?!

well if ur muslim, it's much more unlikely someone will approach u or even be in a relationship with u cause muslims are not allowed to get bfs or gfs.

Reply 12

Notoriety

Original post by 04MR17

What does religion have to do with it?!

some people have religion on the brain

Reply 13

Profesh

Original post by Ray_Shadows

i'm just so lonely idk what im doing wrong in life , heeeeeeeelpppppp

If even you can't live with yourself, then why should anybody else?

Reply 14

04MR17

Volunteer Section Leader

Original post by Rainfall

well if ur muslim, it's much more unlikely someone will approach u or even be in a relationship with u cause muslims are not allowed to get bfs or gfs.

Except OP didn't ask for reasons why they are in this situation. So your post is still confusing me.

Original post by Notoriety

some people have religion on the brain

Indeed.
This is TSR after all. Toughening Staunch Religions.

Reply 15

monkeyman0121

Don't worry about it, I am in the same boat but am 19. I don't really care and you shouldn't either. Just try to figure out why you haven't had any relationships and try to fix that if you can't stop worrying. :tongue:

Reply 16

Buxey

Original post by Ray_Shadows

reeeeeeeeeeeeee

i'm gonna be single 4ever , someone help

It took me to till the age of 23 to have a girlfriend ( which only lasted 6 weeks but that is because she cheated ) honestly I would just focus on yourself learn new skills and become smarter