Please help really confilcted! :(

I will make this short! So basically when I was 10 I went to my mums school and a lady at the school had her son who’s the same age as me in. He was SO nice and really handsome, we played a game and he asked me if I had a boyfriend!! I saw him a few times after I think . My mum has this lady on facebook and she’s always posting pictures of him on there and I’ve never fancied someone so much I know I was 10 but ever since I’ve felt the same.

Now I’m nearly 19 and still like him! I have seen he’s on facebook and Instagram but I don’t want to seem like a freak adding him . I think when I was 15 I added him on facebook but deleted it shortly after I don’t know if he saw it , probably! So this is why I don’t want to look weird adding him.

What should I do ? Am I crazy ? I feel there could be something there between us . Please help! Thanks x

Reply 1

applesauce1

I think you should just talk to him, send him a simple "Hey it's been a while, how are you doing?" Kind of message and see where things go from there

Reply 2

Maya0750

Haha aw thanks! What should i do though ! :frown:

Reply 3

Michelle0207

In my opinion, keep it short and sweet! Add him on whichever base you like and just say something simple: "Hey i think i remember you" "Hey how's it going it been ages" "(Or a simple compliment)"
I've been there! you just need a push! Whatever happens, happens because there's always solutions and recoveries!

Reply 4

Maya0750

Thanks guys for being so nice.

All his social media’s are on private ! I’m so nervous it’s what stopping me also I don’t want to look creepy and stalker - ish!

Reply 5

UnknownD7

Just do it! Otherwise just forget him

Go for it!!!

Original post by Maya0750

Thanks guys for being so nice.

All his social media’s are on private ! I’m so nervous it’s what stopping me also I don’t want to look creepy and stalker - ish!

It won't! It'll be totally cool and casual, it can't be stalkerish if he probably, most likely will feel the same! Keep us updated :smile:

Reply 8

anosmianAcrimony

Doesn't sound like you guys know each other particularly well yet - but that's an easy problem to solve. Hang out and talk and get to know him.

Reply 9

Michelle0207

Original post by anosmianAcrimony

Doesn't sound like you guys know each other particularly well yet - but that's an easy problem to solve. Hang out and talk and get to know him.

Agreed!^

Reply 10

Maya0750

He goes to uni in few hours away now but comes back here often

Should I request him on Instagram

Would he still fancy me after these years and do u guys think he’ll accept ! I wil he so hurt if he doesn’t

Thank you lots guys x

Reply 11

Hopefully1

Well if your mums are still friends and you see his mums posts on facebook the next time she posts a pic of him you could message him and say something like "I just saw a pic of you on your mum's facebook. I know this sounds crazy but I still remember you from growing up. I always thought you were such a nice kid. Just wanted you to know. Hope all is well." Something like that and see if he responds.

Reply 12

Maya0750

Original post by Hopefully1

That’s a good idea! Thanks @Hopefully1

Lol

Original post by Maya0750

Guys I’ve had a crazy idea!

Im having a party for my birthday in February and what if he came ? I don’t know how but imagine ! He could bring friends , what do u think ?

Reply 15

Hopefully1

(Original post by Maya0750)Guys I’ve had a crazy idea!

Im having a party for my birthday in February and what if he came ? I don’t know how but imagine ! He could bring friends , what do u think ?

Do you knowh him well enough to invite and ask him to invite friends? If you are comfortable doing that then, yes, go for it!! :-)