He’s seen all my scars... I feel so insecure right now

So I’ve been with this guy for almost 2yrs now we’ve had sex a few times etc I did date him then we broke up so now we are almost like friends with benefits if You’d like...

Anyway today we were talking and he mentioned something about my scars on my body ... it’s so weird because when we had sex I never thought he noticed I’ve always been so insecure about my scars and skin ...

I’ve suffered from eczema and really bad pigmentation of the skin like where my eczema had been before those areas are slightly darker to the rest of my body and he’s seen it all also I useto self harm when I was younger and those scars are visible to... I feel so horrible rn he’s seen all my insecurities and it makes me feel like crap...

He didn’t really say much all he really said was eczema is horrible I don’t have eczema now but my body will forever be scared from when I did ...


I just want to cry I hate myself so much rn how do I make this go away?

Don’t beat yourself up over it. He should love you for your scars and accept you no matter what and be there for you. From what you’ve said I don’t think he hates you for it, why should he? Trust me, he still loves you. Maybe if you feel like things are awkward you should talk to him about it, he’ll be able to comfort you better than I can.
Remember to love your scars, I have learned to embrace mine and I know how hard it is. Have faith in yourself and things will get easier I promise you.
Feel free to PM me 😊❤️

Aww thanks love and yes u are right I know I shouldn’t over think it but it’s something that’s always bothered me and I know he won’t say anything to me about my scars coz he knows it’ll hurt me but I feel as if deep down it’s put him off slightly...

I don’t think it will have put him off at all, you should try and talk to him though, even if it’s just over the phone to make sure he’s ok about it but I’m sure he will be. Best wishes ❤️

why do i feel like this is fake

Yes I did ask him on how he felt and all he really said was “my dad has eczema and it’s not nice , it’s painful and disgusting “ also he doesn’t know about my scars from self harm ... I’m suppose to be seeing him again this next week and I feel so insecure now he’s more likely to pay attention

I know it’s difficult to talk about but maybe try talking about your self harm scars with him. Honesty is the best policy. The less secrets the stronger your relationship will be. I hope you feel better soon, try not to stress 😊❤️

So I’ve been with this guy for almost 2yrs now we’ve had sex a few times etc I did date him then we broke up so now we are almost like friends with benefits if You’d like...

Anyway today we were talking and he mentioned something about my scars on my body ... it’s so weird because when we had sex I never thought he noticed I’ve always been so insecure about my scars and skin ...

I’ve suffered from eczema and really bad pigmentation of the skin like where my eczema had been before those areas are slightly darker to the rest of my body and he’s seen it all also I useto self harm when I was younger and those scars are visible to... I feel so horrible rn he’s seen all my insecurities and it makes me feel like crap...

He didn’t really say much all he really said was eczema is horrible I don’t have eczema now but my body will forever be scared from when I did ...


I just want to cry I hate myself so much rn how do I make this go away?

PRSOM. You deserve all the rep TSR has.

why do i feel like this is fake

I know it’s difficult to talk about but maybe try talking about your self harm scars with him. Honesty is the best policy. The less secrets the stronger your relationship will be. I hope you feel better soon, try not to stress 😊❤️