Myself and my girlfriend are going to the same university together

It's entirely up to you, but I have always though the uni experience was something special, and if you live with a partner, you won't get that. Also, if you break up, it makes things very difficult - particularly if there are other flatmates to think about. If you're on the same uni you can get accommodation close by, which I think would still be good, and you can meet up as much or as little as you want, and sleep over in each other's rooms if you wish.

I would try not to spend too much time gaming, as it's important to get to know people, and the first year is particularly key for that. But, that's also your choice.

Regarding spending the first year living together and then living apart, I find that weird. Usually, when couples move into together they do so with "forever" in mind. I know it's slightly different as it's uni, but it will be weird to be apart again after living together for so long. If anything, you would be better doing it the other way round, and see how living apart works for you.

You've been together for two years, which I think is promising for a teen relationship (not trying to be patronising here) so living together may work fine, but I still believe that uni is something that is best experienced alone first - and you won't be "alone" anyway, as she will be on the same campus! .

Personally I would avoid living together in university. You do not know if the relationship is going to last once you get to university, also going into accomidation gives you the oppurtuntiy to meet more people and make new friends. Imagine if things didnt work out and you had to live with that person for the rest of the year

I agree, just go to different universities ideally. But if you are going together, live apart. I just think imagine breaking up and having to find new accomidation mid way through a term

I was in said position and the thought of the other person living so close yet so far away is far worse. I'd rather be able to keep tabs on an ex than just being completely in the dark and hearing and seeing things at some point. I lived in seperate accommodation and it was worse for my health.

No, you don't to keep tabs on an ex, ever. Doing so will only wind you up. Once they are an ex, they are nothing to do with you, and they can do whatever they like with whoever they like. It is painful to see that though, so keeping tabs is never healthy.

Not my experience. If you know what's actually going on it's better that's why you should try keep in touch and be civil.

my girlfriend and I*

don't just add reflexive pronouns 4 a laff

If you can afford it, I'd say living on campus in separate flats would be the best option

I really hate how much doubt youre giving to this guys relationship, hes asking for advice on where he should live.. not about if he should break up or not. You're literally putting doubt and loss of faith in this mans mind about his successful relationship. Just give him the answer to his question not advice him to break up and fill him with doubt. Smh.