You can’t put it down to “he had a weird childhood so now he just wants to be friends with kids and sleep in the same bed as them”.
Since when as a child did you sleep in the same bed as your mates and hold hands with them? I’d say never
I don’t think a lot of people understand the confliction in peoples heads who have been molested! Imagine admitting to anyone that you’d been molested. Why do you think it comes out so much later in people’s lives? They realise they’ve been groomed, they come to terms with it and then they finally muster up the will power to admit to their friends and family that they’ve been molested in their past by someone they know...... now imagine how hard that would be
THEN IMAGINE YOUR MOLESTER WAS THE MOST FAMOUS MAN IN THE WORLD