Do you think it’s racist to say you’re not attracted to an ethnicity?

exhibit A. a racist. you're also quite ignorant you know.

firstly, not all black people have dark skin.
2nd, not only black people have dark skin.

troll.

i dont find them good looking and how they act

now we're getting somewhere. attraction is def not just based on looks but behavior and stuff and culture, which is true. If you dont like the act, that can really put you off someone, and you're right about that then. I can see what you mean. I find black women attractive but avoid certain types if ygm, even white girls who act like a certain way. but if you're just swearing that they're all ugly, control that mate. they are not just their skin colour, there's facial features that they share with other races who you'd find attractive. some things are selective blindness, and that's racist.

lemme make it clear im not attracted to anyone who is BLACK. you dont need to give me a gene lecture okay i simply dont find them good looking. i dont find dark skin attractive.

All of the foregoing examples are of black people, inasmuch as 'black' represents a continuum. Conversely, the term 'black' is not conventionally applied in relation to South Asians of similar melanic expression to classical Africans.

Thus: what approximate degree of melanin concentration or pigmentation specifically do you find unappealing?

relax, i bet you he's not even white! i get desperate self-hater vibes.



****ing knew it! jog on. to therapy perhaps.

Not racist, more of a preference. I have this kind of conversation always at school, people just can't control who they are attracted to.
Yes, blonde whites is the most common answer I get. I personally am not attracted to them, that does not mean I hate blonde people as I still interact with them.

for you to find black/asian girls attractive yet you're not attracted to them, it seems as if you'd get with a white girl who you dont even find attractive lol

lemme rephrase. however with white girls if the aren't hot to anyone else, i find them mostly hot if that makes sense

but how can i control it? cos its just a preference whether its racist or not i dont find them good looking at all/how they act. it doesn't mean im going to fight them
i dont find their features attractive e.g noses and hair

i only like whites

you dint have to rephrase mate that's exactly what i said, you'd get with a white girl even if she's not fit or if she's straight up butters. you just really want a white girl. idk why you struggle with your features so much, its certainly something west africans and west indians and african americans dont do as much as other africans and black hispanics. get it together lil bro.

Black people don't all share a single phenotype with respect to noses or hair, much less a particular mode of behaviour. Dark-skinned people do, however, all exhibit the property of dark skin.

Perhaps if you were capable of expressing yourself more coherently—i.e. 'I am not attracted to dark skin' or 'I am not attracted to urban black culture'—rather than conflating skin-colour with culture or ethnicity and then proceeding to extrapolate wildly from that given, limited subset of incidentally dark-skinned people to 'all black people' by association, you wouldn't find yourself in such an absurdly self-defeating predicament on the internet.

hold on there, racism is not racial hatred. Don't over-exaggerate and sensationalise. Racism is simply the mentality that one race is superior to another. It can even mean thinking a race is superior to your own. Hatred connotes violence, yet racism can be very peaceful, "implicit," and harmless, it can simply be a vague disinterest in someone else, such as not finding them attractive, not wanting to be their friend, not wanting to sit next to them, talk to them, without hating them. It can really just be indifference. People really do need to accept what racism is and not shy away from it, or try to talk yourself out of it or spin into something other than what it is. Just own it, you don't want someone from x, y, z group because you don't like em or respect em and you think they're not good enough for ya, meaning you're racist or separatist. End of. It's totally ok, just say it. As long as you don't spit on em.

h its certainly something west africans and west indians and african americans dont do as much as other africans and black hispanics.

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lol what country are u from?? i have loads of british-west african mates nowadays.

I'm attracted to all sorts of women except asian and i'll tell you why. I keep an open mind if she's just ****ing gorgeous like if the Asian girl is like dark tan with that long soft black hair and a nice face like good teeth and a nice nose and not hairy and stuff and a nice body then ok, like Nicole Scherzinger but otherwise I can't be attracted to em because of culture differences, so i dont even bother really lol, and east asian girls I just rarely find attractive physically and they kinda weird me out no grown woman should walk around the way some of them do haha.

But even though I am not attracted to them, I won't be sat here saying that none of em are attractive, cos that's a lie. There are people who cant even admit that someone is attractive, that's just racist lol.