muslim girls- how do you avoid guys hitting on you, being close/touching you at uni

SALAM
MY advice is to AVOID all maLE interactions, dress AND ACT as modestly as possible and get married

But that,of course, is not what i was talking about. You just gave 2 extreme examples. The point i was making is that the person who wrote the post we are referring to sounded sanctimonious and judgemental! If you don't like being touched- say so and if it continues then report it! and what sort of " people you don't like" is he referring to? the drinkers, those ,like many Muslim men who have sex before marriage and keep it secret, or who are gay etc. etc.,those that don't follow Islam. Its far better , simpler and more humane, in my view,to be non judgemental!

If you dont want someone to touch you then tell them to stopl. If they don't then they are dicks and you should report them to the uni

i don’t mind and don’t care and like it

are you a muslim?

sorta

bro its a yes or no question

No, it is NOT

hey lol so basically i know i should tell them to stop but how do i physically say to someone who just nudged me/touched my shoulder seemingly without thinking too much of it, in action to stop?
I feel so pathetic asking this i feel like everyone just knows and im just dumb.

This thread is really over the top. A guy bumps into you/touches you accidentally just like when you are in a busy shopping centre, right? what is the big deal- one or both of you say sorry and move on ! Easy! If it is unwanted touching, whether you are a muslim or an atheist - you open your mouth and tell them to stop.Ok? I think you may have a quite distorted view of uni life especially if you hsve never lived away from your parents. A more pressing problem for you apart from getting the entry grades is to figure out what can be done to reduce the e amount of loneliness that some uni students can feel and how to integrate without changing your principles!

Either you're muslim or you're NOT.

How hard is it to answer that.

ive always gone to a girls school but im not your typical frigid, awkward *****y girl i was defo the chilled laid back one who just went there because it was the best school in the area type thing-so obviously i havent ever really had issues with guys who i see/walk with/hang out with everyday liking me and trying to get closer to me etc. Now obviously, i'm a practicing muslim and do take my faith quite seriously but i went on a summer school recently obviously mixed and we quickly formed a mixed group. this guy tho yeah he consistently sat v close to me, had his arm around me(on the sofa so not actually touching) when we were sat on the couch, touched my back and often when we were walking down quite narrow lanes we would just constantly keep bumping into eachother. we also rubbed shoulders alot and when we were on the sofa had a blanket over the two of us ( i didnt realise it was only over us apparently i had the majority of it). i am honestly riddled with guilt and i dunno i just hate this feeling because i know its not allowed to be close to a guy but honestly it was him always initiating/instigating it and i was just trying to be nice back. luckily this was only a week long summer school but i expect had it been freshers week this would have carried on and we wouldve carried on brushing into eachother and all the other minor touching that was going on between us would have continued- i wasnt reciprocating anything like touching him back except a few times when it was necessary so i honeslty wonder how you girls at uni do it? do you just 100% avoid guys altogerther from day one? or just befriend skinny ones lol so you never have to touch, this guy was HENCH unfortunately for me and he took up a lot of the room i know i shouldve hung back or walked ahead or whatever and got out of the close contact situation but that for 3 years straigjt would inevitably get exhausting (and i would just feel rude!) a whole damned essay uno- anyway please do reply and let me know what i should do/what you do. thanks

Salaams sis yes I recommend listening to our religion and reading the Quran it will get rid of all bad thoughts and guilts you may have. I commend you so much for sticking to your values because sadly I'm surrounded by Muslims but they swear all the time. im hoping next year after doing my exams. Please pray for me that I will pass my exams this is my 3rd timendoing itazzawajall will help you find the right man for you one that respects you and loves you for who you are. I'm 17 and planning to go on lvl 2 health and social care