Majority of people will care much more about personality etc, and when someone has a good personality, that makes their looks and physique much more attractive regardless of what they actually look like. However, obviously physical attraction is also important in a relationship. The big thing to remember is that everyone’s perception of attractive or ‘hot’ is different, so one person may love abs, whilst the next doesn’t like them and the next couldn’t care less. The main thing concerning your physique and hotness is to find yourself attractive / be confident (as much as possible), as this will automatically make you appear more attractive to others, as well as make you happier in yourself, which is much more important. So to end, abs etc don’t really matter, as long as you’re happy with yourself, as everyone has different opinions and preferences!