So like the title suggests, I'm pretty fresh out of my relationship. I was with my ex (call him Alex) for just over a year and both him and our mutual friend (James) were in our friendship group at sixth form.
I must admit that I did fancy James for a month or two before I was ever with Alex then I got with Alex and I didn't think about him again.
Since all of us were at uni, I only saw James for the first time in about 4 months and this was the first time I've seen him since I broke up with Alex. And immediately I started getting feelings for him again. This was solidified that night when I had a dream about James which was ahem somewhat inappropriate.
What makes this so complicated is the fact I'm not entirely sure if I'm rebound crushing on James, especially since I liked him before. Plus I'm fairly sure I'm over Alex. Then the fact both Alex and I are friends with him makes it worse.
I'm going to James' house tomorrow for another friendship group meet up before we all go back to uni and Alex will also be there. Anyone got any advice about what to do?
Tl;dr: broke up with my boyfriend and now fancy our mutual friend, not sure whether this is rebound feelings or not and don't know what to do.