Tried everything...don't know what next. Watch
I haven't had sex yet, and i've done everything, fingering, dildo (only done a couple inches) in order to get myself stretched out and nothing is working. my boyfriend has tried as well, and sometimes it works great, and other times i'm in pain and both him and i are confused, is something wrong with me or..?
Oh I’m dumb sorry. Honestly it will be painfully **** no matter how much you try to stretch it out. You honestly just have have to endure it and after a few thrusts it’ll become pleasurable. Also you have to have the right mindset to do it like don’t be scared because that’ll make it close more, making it more painful and that’s what happened to my friend - she wasn’t able to endure so it became more painful for her, making her stop quickly. Sorry if you already know this but that’s all I can say; I hope you and your boyfriend can finally be able to.
How can you not be scared if you know it's gonna be painful? Cuz that's super *****y, pardon my language.
Is there anything to help the pain though? lube? different positioning? i don't have a high pain tolerance, so i want it to hurt as less as humanely possible.