Need advice on how to get over a bad fight with my partner, struggling to forgive him

Do you even english yourself

Do you even english yourself

Papa needs to eat.

Did you get any?! LJ???! She told me to **** off when I offered to show my ween.

Serial cheater vs serial beater, nice combo.

Okay. Splitting up is not an option. So, sit down and talk to him. Discuss your feelings with each other. Write on a piece of paper what you want from this relationship and how you think it could be better. Get him to do the same. Then when you're both finished, swap paper. And then talk about it. Communication is key. All I can suggest other than a therapist but they'd just suggest the same. Good luck.

Also, I suggest speaking to your GP or Doctor. You may be struggling with a mental illness and not even know it. They can help if that's the case. Mental Illness has such a bad stigma but it is nothing to be ashamed of or scared of. I have it myself and I am on medication for it, which I really refused to do at first. But it helped and still does. You just have to accept the help and advice. Best of luck

Long story short, recently my life spiraled a bit out of control. The usual stuff, meaning spending way too much money on all sorts of useless crap, too much partying, and cheating. All this led to a pretty bad argument between me and my boyfriend. At one point when he was trying to stop me from leaving the house, he ended up hitting me in the face and dislocating my shoulder.

He apologised, of course. I'm not mad at him anymore, to be perfectly honest, I know I deserved it. But for some crazy reason, my brain has now developed this crazy aversion towards him, it's come to the point where I don't even want him to touch me. I just find myself avoiding him all the time. He suddenly reminds me of someone I hate, which is plain stupid and illogical. I need advice on how to put our relationship back on track.

What do you mean by he ended up hitting you and dislocating your shoulder? How did that happen?

do not forgive him, he will do it again. I have this happen to me, trust me

I wouldn't stop taunting him, so he snapped and backhanded me. 😂 And to stop me from going out, he physically restrained me, twisted my arm behind my back and ****ed up my shoulder.

I'm sorry but don't blame yourself in his actions. This is toxic. He shouldn't have touched you no matter what. Please do not stay with him. It will happen again.

No, it won't. This isn't a new relationship, he's a good person.

But you clearly aren't.

Long story short, recently my life spiraled a bit out of control. The usual stuff, meaning spending way too much money on all sorts of useless crap, too much partying, and cheating.

Lmfao, yeah, I'm soooo evil. You don't know what 'a bad person' means, hun.

Yeah; you are an outstanding person.