I used to hate them too but they grow on you the more you do them I think!
When I was learning I used 4 steps:
Step 1- Write/Look at the balanced equation and note down the mol ratios. (ie HCL + NaOH --> NaCl + H2O) - the mol ratio here is 1:1 because 1 mol of HCL reacts with 1 mol of NaOH to produce 1 mol of NaCl and 1 mol of water. This could be different for every equation, just look at the ratio
Step 2- Using the information given, work out the number of mols of one compound by substitute numbers into a mol formula. For example, if you have been given the mass of HCl, use mol=mass/Mr to work out mols
If given the volume and concentration, use mol=concenreation x volume
REMEMBER TO CONVERT VOLUME INTO DM3 by dividing by 1000!!
Step 3 - Using the mol ratio, ie 1:1, we know that the mols of HCl is going to be equal to the mols of NaOH because the ratio is 1:1; the amount of mols of HCl is equal to mols of NaOH.
HOWEVER, if the mol ratio is 1:2, then you need to divide/multiply by 2 to find the mols of this
Step 4 - Work out the concentration/mass of the other compound by substituting the numbers into the formula again
Its long and a bit confusing but with more practise you'll get the hang of it. It's the same thing for every calculation aha