Should I suggest drinks or a meal and drinks for a first date?

I met this girl in a bar on holiday, we got chatting and it turns out we live only 15 minutes away from each other. As she was leaving she gave me her number and told me to message her, as she was leaving with her friends she turned around to look at me and smiled (I’m assuming that’s a good sign?)

Anyway I said we’ll have to meet up when we’re home and she said she’d like that. I’ve not been on a date in a while so I’m not sure whether to suggest drinks or a meal and drinks. Which would be better?

Reply 1

Keown x

9

How old are you ? If you’re between above 30 I’d take her for a meal but under 30 I’d say take her for drinks then if it goes well suggest a meal

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

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Original post by Keown x

How old are you ? If you’re between above 30 I’d take her for a meal but under 30 I’d say take her for drinks then if it goes well suggest a meal

We’re mid 20’s

Reply 3

Truflais

20

Just drinks imo. Meal for a 2nd or 3rd date.

Reply 4

black tea

19

Original post by Anonymous

I met this girl in a bar on holiday, we got chatting and it turns out we live only 15 minutes away from each other. As she was leaving she gave me her number and told me to message her, as she was leaving with her friends she turned around to look at me and smiled (I’m assuming that’s a good sign?)

Anyway I said we’ll have to meet up when we’re home and she said she’d like that. I’ve not been on a date in a while so I’m not sure whether to suggest drinks or a meal and drinks. Which would be better?

Go for drinks and suggest you both get the same drinks you had when you first met so you can remember your holiday :smile:

Reply 5

mgi

20

Original post by Anonymous

I met this girl in a bar on holiday, we got chatting and it turns out we live only 15 minutes away from each other. As she was leaving she gave me her number and told me to message her, as she was leaving with her friends she turned around to look at me and smiled (I’m assuming that’s a good sign?)

Anyway I said we’ll have to meet up when we’re home and she said she’d like that. I’ve not been on a date in a while so I’m not sure whether to suggest drinks or a meal and drinks. Which would be better?

Easy. Start with drinks then suggest going for a pizza etc!

Drinks. It's more casual.

Reply 7

Largest Bob

2

Original post by Anonymous

I met this girl in a bar on holiday, we got chatting and it turns out we live only 15 minutes away from each other. As she was leaving she gave me her number and told me to message her, as she was leaving with her friends she turned around to look at me and smiled (I’m assuming that’s a good sign?)

Anyway I said we’ll have to meet up when we’re home and she said she’d like that. I’ve not been on a date in a while so I’m not sure whether to suggest drinks or a meal and drinks. Which would be better?

I suggest a healthy meal of deep fried mars bars num num :P

Reply 8

beep4music

11

Also drinks are easier to finish if you guys don't get on as well as initially thought, a meal means you need to sit down and maybe be there for longer than needed.

Should I suggest drinks or a meal and drinks for a first date?

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