It all depends on the girl, different ones want different things. However a lot of girls love a guy who isn’t an alpha and who shows emotions and acts as a gentleman towards her
Harsh but only muscular, tall, handsome men turn girls on. What's the point in having a relationship when you can't make a girl feel his way.
I know this as a general rule but when women get desperate they want beta males e.g. financial trouble, single motherhood and the like. It's a sad state of affairs