Hi, I'm going to join this thread because I've been struggling with disordered eating for 7 years. I had bulimia when I was age 13-15 and have been on and off restricting since I turned 18. I feel too fat to be anorexic though. I know that is such a typical thing for someone with anorexia to say, but it is true for me. Because I keep switching from restricting to eating normally, I never actually get underweight enough for people to notice.
For those of you who are purging, pleaaaseee just try and stop! I know when you get in the habit of doing it every day, it feels like an addiction. Some may say that it is because your brain gets a dopamine rush from doing it. But I'm going to be real with you... the longer you do it, the harder it is to stop. Look up gastroparesis- a condition which can be caused from purging and not eating enough. This is a condition which is irreversible and your stomach can no longer empty food due to nerve damage from purging. Do you really want to only be able to have liquid foods or even worse, only be tube fed for the rest of your life? Then there is the constant risk of having a heart attack or suffering from electrolyte imbalance. NO FOOD will hurt you as much as your eating disorder will.
Also, fighting back against your eating disorder is all about doing opposite actions. Just because you have a thought that says "you need to purge", it doesn't mean you have to listen and do it. Just like if someone with OCD has a thought that says "If you don't tap the wall, your family will get hurt", it doesn't mean they have to tap the wall because that thought holds no truth! Yes, it is challenging and very difficult to go against it, but you do have the power to say NO to your thoughts. I hope what I have said doesn't come across as patronising, I just wanted to share a couple of things that helped me get more insight into my eating disorder. At the end of the day, everything we experience in our brains are just thoughts. Some can be super nasty and traumatising but we have the strength and power to fight back. xx