Bf meeting up with ex!

Is it wrong of me to feel jealous that he’s having to meet up for her to do this?

no but don't take that out on him because he has to do it for both of you

if you tell him without being mad a him he probably won't get upset with you

I know but it still doesn’t stop me worrying that she won’t try something. I mean she is the type to try and win him back. Because she’s been stalking me on social media and telling me that she’s still with him.

okay so she's a weirdo. still, ask if you can go with him?

Since it needs to happen then a bit, yes. How else is he meant to get the papers signed?

He originally planned on giving them to a mutual friend who he trusts. Then at the last minute decided to do it in person at a time when I won’t be able to go with him even though he knows I want to be there.

Honestly, seems a little suspicious to me.

Ask him to re-arrange it so that you can attend as well. If he refuses, you know he's up to something (unless there's a deadline).

My bf split with his ex over 4 years ago. We are in the process of buying a house and have found out that she is still down on the mortgage. So in order for him to sell his place he needs her to sign some papers. Is it wrong of me to feel jealous that he’s having to meet up for her to do this?

No. Come on! Its a means to an end. For you two to buy a house together.!

Yes I realise that. But when he calls you be her name at a time you really don’t want to her another woman’s name let alone his ex. It kinda makes you wonder.

Yes ok. But maybe that is about you? Maybe you feel a bit insecure? Don't you trust him? Guys don't commit to buying a house with you if they still fancy their ex! They would have to be mad!

How do you mean, it’s about me? I do trust him and I’m not insecure. He’s called me by her name, hides his phone, leaves the room when he’s on the phone. Sometimes when we meet up or he picks me up from work there’s this perfume smell that isn’t mine. We don’t live together yet, but I’ve got some stuff at his, when I went there last night none of it was out on my bedside table or in my drawers. He had put them in a cupboard on the landing. Why do that? The only thing I can think of is that he had someone round that he didn’t want knowing he was in a relationship.

ok. I see what you mean. Could it be that he was tidying up? But, surely, if you are suspicious then there are trust issues? You would be quite right, without a credible explanation, to not trust Mr perfume smelling man! What explanation did he give? How long has he been your boyfriend? Don't move in with him yet-if at all. Wait. Really figure out what you want. Is he the ONE? By the way if you move in with a guy without getting engaged/married to him then you are giving him everything-love, companionship, sex etc without him having to really commit to you and he will slow down drastically with any marriage wishes that you may have! Just saying.😀

If he was tidying up then why not keep my stuff in my bedside drawer. He had taken it out of the drawer and put it in a cupboard. Also with the perfume I asked him and he said his sister was spraying him. Only thing is I know what perfume his sister uses and it was t that perfume. I can be suspicious and still trust him. Yes in the past I have had trust issues because all my exes have cheated on me. We have spoken about marriage, but that has since become less since his ex has been in contact with him.

If he was tidying up then why not keep my stuff in my bedside drawer. He had taken it out of the drawer and put it in a cupboard. Also with the perfume I asked him and he said his sister was spraying him. Only thing is I know what perfume his sister uses and it was t that perfume. I can be suspicious and still trust him. Yes in the past I have had trust issues because all my exes have cheated on me. We have spoken about marriage, but that has since become less since his ex has been in contact with him.