Girls would you be will to date a 5'3" male?

I've been struggling to get dates for numerous years. And currently on a large rejection streak. Wondering if the lack of dates would be due to my short stature.

Little bit about me Im 25 yrs old 5'3" 125lbs. I'm a distance runner and avid hiker.

Female friend at work asked if girls that I've met ever bring up my height, or if my short stature affects me at all. I answered her, and quite honestly, girls usually bring up my height in some sort of way. If they dont, their friends usually do. Which brings me to believe my height (or lack of) is the main reason for instant rejections?

Reply 1

claireestelle

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Original post by Anonymous

I've been struggling to get dates for numerous years. And currently on a large rejection streak. Wondering if the lack of dates would be due to my short stature.

Little bit about me Im 25 yrs old 5'3" 125lbs. I'm a distance runner and avid hiker.

Female friend at work asked if girls that I've met ever bring up my height, or if my short stature affects me at all. I answered her, and quite honestly, girls usually bring up my height in some sort of way. If they dont, their friends usually do. Which brings me to believe my height (or lack of) is the main reason for instant rejections?

height wouldn't have been a deal breaker for me

Reply 2

Vinny C

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Depends if you are just as wide. Infuriates me. 6,000 deaths per yr from obesity and maybe 3 from anorexia. And who gets all the bad press? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=or7U3Q7GkpU

(edited 4 years ago)

Reply 3

Vinny C

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Guess not throwing money at supermarkets fails to make the world go round.

Reply 4

margiekins

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Original post by Vinny C

Depends if you are just as wide. Infuriates me. 6,000 deaths per yr from obesity and maybe 3 from anorexia. And who gets all the bad press? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=or7U3Q7GkpU

Im pretty sure the death rate for anorexia is much higher than 3 a year plus obesity isnt a serious mental illness, im pretty sure 1 in 10 girls develop an ED but I could be wrong im just making an assumption from personal experience

Reply 5

londonmyst

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I'm 5'1.
I always date guys taller than me but don't have a favourite height.
I'm more interested in personality than looks or height.
I'd probably get to know you first and turn you down if there was something in your personality or history that put me off.
Like being into bnp politics, drugs or hardcore porn.

Reply 6

username3890778

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Sorry but no. I’m 5’7, i could only date guys my height or taller.

Reply 7

Galactic tears

15

Don't worry I am sure you will find a short girl out there

Reply 8

Vinny C

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Original post by margiekins

Im pretty sure the death rate for anorexia is much higher than 3 a year plus obesity isnt a serious mental illness, im pretty sure 1 in 10 girls develop an ED but I could be wrong im just making an assumption from personal experience

Obesity is never considered an ED nor an illness. Just look at men's figures before we discovered sugar... and these were fighting men! https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=agincourt+battle&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwi30M_lvfHiAhXySRUIHSVWAMgQ_AUIESgC&biw=1280&bih=868&dpr=1#imgrc=XmEygsxyOuCbcM:&spf=1560807707737

Reply 9

margiekins

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Original post by Vinny C

Obesity is never considered an ED nor an illness. Just look at men's figures before we discovered sugar... and these were fighting men! https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=agincourt+battle&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwi30M_lvfHiAhXySRUIHSVWAMgQ_AUIESgC&biw=1280&bih=868&dpr=1#imgrc=XmEygsxyOuCbcM:&spf=1560807707737

Thats because obesity itself isnt an ED, if someone is obese they can have an ED but just being obese doesnt make them have one

No

Original post by londonmyst

I'd probably get to know you first and turn you down if there was something in your personality or history that put me off.
Like being into bnp politics, drugs or hardcore porn.

How long do you wait before asking if they watch hardcore porn?

Reply 12

Vinny C

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Original post by margiekins

Thats because obesity itself isnt an ED, if someone is obese they can have an ED but just being obese doesnt make them have one

It means they consume too much sugar... and don't exercise enough. My son takes me jogging 3 times a week. Hurts like hell but the belt I wore 10 yrs ago now fits again.

Reply 13

margiekins

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Original post by Vinny C

It means they consume too much sugar... and don't exercise enough. My son takes me jogging 3 times a week. Hurts like hell but the belt I wore 10 yrs ago now fits again.

Thats great, but like I said obesity is not an eating disorder

Reply 14

Vinny C

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Original post by margiekins

Thats great, but like I said obesity is not an eating disorder

It is as just as much a malaise as anorexia and causes far more many deaths. Thousands more! Hurts like hell to jog 20 mins 3 times a week but the benefits. I can move and walk again all the week. Stop complaining and just do it!

Reply 15

UWS

21

You'll probably get more luck with shorter girls. You're well below the average for a guy but that doesn't mean you won't find anyone.

I'm 5'3 as well and I've had a fair number of dates, all have been shorter or around the same height as me. Yeah you'll be rejected for your height but you've just got to deal with it.