I sat on my brothers friends lap, he got hard but he forced me not get up?

a bit of a sticky one if you ask me

My brothers friends came over, I was playing video games when they came. My brother like always, wanted to boss me around and told me to leave because they wanted to play. I didn't move an inch but he ended up throwing me from the couch.

They all sat down. My brothers friend sat on the couch I sat before. I told them to make a space for me but they all ignored me so I just sat on him. He told me to get up 2x but then said fine. we just ended up playing video games together, I tried to get up from his lap after realizing he was getting hard. He stopped me from getting up, he looked me dead in the eye, it was just so embarrassing and scary.

I tried to get up again after some minutes, he didn't stop me. I just left and went to my room.

Why would he do such a thing? I am 15. Did he maybe assault me? this isn't considered rape right? it was scary

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you’re 15, not 3 years old. why you sitting on his lap? you’re a big girl sweetie. people can do bad things to you

did he touch you?

Idk, I just did it

He did had his hand on my waist. when I tried to get up he grabbed my waist, put his arm on my tights and put pressure/weight so I will not be able to get up

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This definitely isn’t assault or rape. He didn’t force himself on you (actually - you more forced yourself on him by sitting on his lap and refusing to move).

He shouldn’t have stopped you from getting up. I don’t know if it was because he was being pervy or because he was embarrassed or something but he should have allowed you to get up.
But how did he stop you? And he let you a moment later?

How old is he/your brother may I ask?

I suggest you try not to worry about it. It was an awkward and embarrassing situation - for you and for him.

But in the future, maybe don’t sit on a random guy’s lap without being invited to...

he didn't rape you. learn what the definition is.

you could've easily gotten off, unless he held you down-which i doubt he did. not saying what he did was right but you're both in the wrong here.

How old is he?

I would record him with your phone.

Tell him what happened and not to do it again.

Hopefully he will incriminate himself.

Alternatively you can tell your mum, but be aware stuff could hit the fan. Its your choice, what he did was wrong, but you need proof or if not there could be a lot of turmoil. It was a sexual assault. He will deny or laugh it off.

They are both 17.

He did had his hand on my waist. when I tried to get up he grabbed my waist, put his arm on my tights and put pressure/weight so I will not be able to get up. After some minutes, when I tried again, he didn't do anything.

when I tried to get up he grabbed my waist, put his arm on my tights and put pressure/weight so I will not be able to get up

too many loops in this. you didn't specify him grabbing your waist and grabbing your tights.

main question was. why on earth would you sit on a strangers lap? not to sound shallow but you deserved whatever happened. let that be a lesson.