When will girls stop liking bullies and bad guys who they think are “cool” by doing all the bad thing like snorting drugs, smoking beating up people physically inferior to them?
When will girls stop liking bullies and bad guys who they think are “cool” by doing all the bad thing like snorting drugs, smoking beating up people physically inferior to them?
She didn’t even give me a chance prolly because I only smoke or look like a bad guy. I’m a nice guy with my own values
R/niceguys If she isn’t attracted to you then what can anyone else do? Stop generalising girls and putting down other boys just because one girl doesn’t like you.
It does happen a lot. A girl in my gym rejected me and was interested in a guy who looked intimidating
Look. I’m a girl. I know what girls think and I know what they look for in guys.
Girls do not look for bad guys. Girls care about PERSONALITY. Sure, being good looking helps a lot, but an average looking guy can find a great girl if he has a good personality.
And by good personality I do not mean ‘nice’. Just because u are nice doesn’t mean u have a good personality, it doesn’t mean ur interesting, and it doesn’t mean it’s good enough for a girl to be attracted to you. Being nice is the BARE MINIMUM. Most guys are nice. So don’t act like it’s such an achievement that ur ‘nice’. If the fact that ur ‘nice’ is ur biggest selling point, then no wonder ur having trouble finding a girl. Because nice is good but it’s the bare minimum and it’s not enough for a girlfriend.
You need to have good interests, you need to be good at holding a conversation. U need to have aspirations for the future. You need to have good self esteem. U need to make the girl feel special and DMing her “hey” or just asking her out, without having even bothered to ask for her name isn’t going to cut it.
Look, I’d love to give u some more tips and bits, but only if ur receptive to it. I know what works and what doesn’t. It’s great that u think ur nice, but be honest, u wouldn’t date a girl purely because u thought she was ‘nice’.
Please let me know if u want the advice, otherwise I’ll just get off ur thread
Look. I’m a girl. I know what girls think and I know what they look for in guys.
Girls do not look for bad guys. Girls care about PERSONALITY. Sure, being good looking helps a lot, but an average looking guy can find a great girl if he has a good personality.
And by good personality I do not mean ‘nice’. Just because u are nice doesn’t mean u have a good personality, it doesn’t mean ur interesting, and it doesn’t mean it’s good enough for a girl to be attracted to you. Being nice is the BARE MINIMUM. Most guys are nice. So don’t act like it’s such an achievement that ur ‘nice’. If the fact that ur ‘nice’ is ur biggest selling point, then no wonder ur having trouble finding a girl. Because nice is good but it’s the bare minimum and it’s not enough for a girlfriend.
You need to have good interests, you need to be good at holding a conversation. U need to have aspirations for the future. You need to have good self esteem. U need to make the girl feel special and DMing her “hey” or just asking her out, without having even bothered to ask for her name isn’t going to cut it.
Look, I’d love to give u some more tips and bits, but only if ur receptive to it. I know what works and what doesn’t. It’s great that u think ur nice, but be honest, u wouldn’t date a girl purely because u thought she was ‘nice’.
Please let me know if u want the advice, otherwise I’ll just get off ur thread
I want your advice but make sure that your advice is for Instagram because I can’t randomly go to girls and start talking to them
Don’t know where you got this from. I don’t particularly get fanny flutters when a guy tells me he’s just back from jail.
Lol most of the bad guys girls like have not been to jail but there is much more chance that they’ll end up in jail because most of the girls mistake possessiveness as care which is where they are wrong
Because bad guys are more fun to be around. They tend to be more masculine and dominant and these traits attracts women due to evolutionary biology.
Yes being good looking is attractive to women, just as it’s attractive to men. But women don’t go for bad guys. They go for interesting people who can hold a conversation. Out of interest, what would u consider a ‘bad guy’?