I'm now in my mid forties, after being mildly anorexic as a teenager....and have always been flat chested. Now, after 3 kids my boobs are non existent. Lift my arms up and they disappear altogether They started off as an A cup, and I've lost half a cup size after each child. I used to stress about it, but as I've got older it bothers me less. I don't think I've ever met a woman with smaller boobs than me...but it didn't seem to hinder me in finding a boyfriend or a husband...and was a positive advantage for breast feeding. All my better -endowed friends had numerous difficulties with breast feeding, but I had no problems at all. Plus it never hurts to run, or jump up stairs etc. I don't get back ache. The biggest issue is not being able to find dresses to fit. But there are many worse things that can happen in life than that. Being young is so stressful. Its great being older and realising that a lot of stuff you used to fret about really isn't that big a deal after all. xx