Can I re attract her?

Option 1: Ask her out again, and be honest and tell her you like her, but you got a bit tongue-tied because were nervous about getting the date right with her. However, be prepared to be rejected as she didn't 'feel a spark' and you acted coolly towards her when she said she this!

Option 2: Forget this girl and work on your social skills. Learn to be more comfortable chatting to girls as friends. Don't rush into making out on a first date.

If she’s not interested, that means she’s not Interested, you can’t “re attract” her, it’s understandable that your hurt or not happy but bare in mind that she doesn’t wanna go on a second date, if she doesn’t then leave her be..find someone else and I’ll tell you something else, don’t make out in a first date, don’t kiss or anything like that with a girl u go with on a FIRST date, show respect that you really are interested and making out is not the way to show ur attracted to her

Yeah but it was the moment when we both wanted to kiss. If I backed away when she leaned in that probably would've gone down worse.

Yeah fair enough, but are u sure u both wanted to kiss or did lean for a kiss first? Because maybe that’s why she wasn’t interested anymore cause sometimes little things either attract girls more to you or they don’t

Leave it for some time. She might be trying to figure things out and you don't want to come off as needy. It is possible that an attraction can reignite, especially if there was one before. However do not put all your eggs in one basket and just focus on her, there is still the chance that it won't happen ofc.

She didn’t find a spark, and she was honest about it, this is why so many girls call guys creeps what the hell is “re attract”. You tried it out with her, she’s not as interested as you thoughts Just move on, good luck

It is easy for us guys to get weak when we find someone we really like, because we do not want to **** it up, but girls aren't normally attracted to weak needy guys.

I say never lose hope, but focus on life aswell, and enjoy it. I know some people who would never consider going out originally and end up together. So never say never. But just don't get too upset if it doesn't work out between you two.

She might be just testing the waters. Maybe she speaking to someone else, and seeing how it goes with them. And maybe she was judging your reaction to her. So it's good you played it cool.

It honestly is a horrible feeling, I've been there mate. Most people have. But you just got to wait and see how it plays out. Just do not come off as desperate and obsessed. It will turn her off you even more. Be friendly and get to know her in a friendly way. Maybe with some light flirting and compliments Inbetween, so you don't get friendzoned. And do not message everyday and respond too quickly either.

Hope it works out for you

Honestly, best advice I can give you is take this as a learning curve and work on your social skills/confidence.

If you message her again and try and convince her to change your mind, you’re going to become and seem less attractive.

If it seems like you’re not that bothered, working on yourself or who knows, even getting more dates and her thinking she’s just an option, she is more likely to become attracted to you.

It’s no guarantee, but people are more inclined to want something they can’t have than be overly desperate.

She's decided she's not interested so leave her alone. Her mind is already made up.

Your probably right. Just strange that it was going great and it ended like that.