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I’m not lesbian but i get turned on by girls

Omg same

Original post by Somegirl124456

Omg same

You are both lesbians!- if you are girls!

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EleanorBizzle

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You don’t have to tell people jack ****. You are who you are without a label!!! I’m similar. I love lesbian porn I get off to it more than straight porn but I would never date a girl. I live in a house at uni with 2 lesbians and I would never think of ****ing them but maybe a complete stranger if I was up for it why not! Just because there’s al these labels out there doesn’t mean you have to say anything about who you are. Friends family will ask just say whatever you feel comfortable with. Whatever you’re sexually attracted to isn’t their business. Only yours :smile:

Reply 23

mgi

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Original post by EleanorBizzle

You don’t have to tell people jack ****. You are who you are without a label!!! I’m similar. I love lesbian porn I get off to it more than straight porn but I would never date a girl. I live in a house at uni with 2 lesbians and I would never think of ****ing them but maybe a complete stranger if I was up for it why not! Just because there’s al these labels out there doesn’t mean you have to say anything about who you are. Friends family will ask just say whatever you feel comfortable with. Whatever you’re sexually attracted to isn’t their business. Only yours :smile:

Yes true.

Reply 24

Anonymous #2

This got me questioning my speciality bc I thinking the same 🤔😂 I'm bi-curious for sure, I want to experience having sex with a girl 👀 I've never had sex at all, so it would be interesting to venture into something new.

Reply 25

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

This got me questioning my speciality bc I thinking the same 🤔😂 I'm bi-curious for sure, I want to experience having sex with a girl 👀 I've never had sex at all, so it would be interesting to venture into something new.

I mean *sexuality** NOT 'speciality'

Reply 26

mgi

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Original post by Anonymous

I mean *sexuality** NOT 'speciality'

It is fine to question/explore your sexuality. And you don't have to give reasons if you don't want to.

Reply 27

emcfaddenx

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OMG this is exactly how I feel, I feel so confused! I’m so attracted to boys but I enjoy watching lesbian porn and when I watch it makes me think about how I’d like to sleep with a girl! Confuses me too cause I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with a girl!!!

Reply 28

mgi

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Original post by emcfaddenx

OMG this is exactly how I feel, I feel so confused! I’m so attracted to boys but I enjoy watching lesbian porn and when I watch it makes me think about how I’d like to sleep with a girl! Confuses me too cause I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with a girl!!!

You probably would! You would like to sleep with a girl especially after watching lesbians. That's what you said!

Reply 29

Anonymous #3

Sounds exactly like me- heteroflexible :smile:

aka having sexual and romantic attraction to opposite gender but also having sexual attraction to people from the same gender.
Some people would just say it's the same thing with being bi but for me at least bi means sexual AND romantic attraction to BOTH genders with isn't the case.

Reply 30

mgi

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Original post by Anonymous

Sounds exactly like me- heteroflexible :smile:

aka having sexual and romantic attraction to opposite gender but also having sexual attraction to people from the same gender.
Some people would just say it's the same thing with being bi but for me at least bi means sexual AND romantic attraction to BOTH genders with isn't the case.

It's exactly the same. People are just craving new names to label old stuff that have been around for ever. Its just about ego!

Reply 31

Mamido

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Thanks for that information because I being 65 had serious doubts regarding my sexuality but I really get turned on by watching women

Reply 32

Anonymousgirl98

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I feel the exact same but like urself I’m a restricted asian girl:/

Original post by Arianarose03

This will confuse a hell alot of people. Okay so here it goes,
I am straight. Like i love boys, obsessed with them and can fall in love so quickly with them. I see myself getting married to a boy, having kids with him ect. However much recently I’ve been getting attraction to girl but not in a romantic way at all... just sexually. I find them to be so hot and when ever i watch lesbian porn it turns me on alot!! Don’t get me wrong i think boys are so hot and i would definitely not turn them down but if i had to choose between a one night stand with a boy and one night stand with a girl i would choose the girl. I find myself fantasising about girls and i want to sleep with a girl (but I can’t because i am a restricted asian girl lol) anyways i enjoy thinking about girls in a sexual way but if i think about getting into a relationship with one I don’t really find it to be something i want. I used to have a lesbian best friend and i used to think alot about sleeping with her but never thought of being in a relationship with her... Is this a wrong feeling? What am i feeling? Am i even straight? I just need help.
Ps. I read something about being hetroromantic homosexual... is that an actual thing or is it fake? What do i tell people? Ugh I’m so confused! Helppp meee pleaseee!!

Reply 33

mgi

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Original post by Anonymousgirl98

I feel the exact same but like urself I’m a restricted asian girl:/

You just feel guilty because you have an attraction towards girls and probably you are a lesbian. You can only be "restricted " if you allow people to restrict you from being who you are!

Reply 34

Anonymousgirl98

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I’m sure I’m not a lesbian though. I can see myself marrying a man, I am attracted to men but I’m also very attracted to women but I don’t see myself in a relationship with one

Reply 35

mgi

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Original post by Anonymousgirl98

I’m sure I’m not a lesbian though. I can see myself marrying a man, I am attracted to men but I’m also very attracted to women but I don’t see myself in a relationship with one

Ok. Are you bisexual then? It sounds as though you are. You see yourself eventually" marrying a man" even though you are also "very attracted to women". Why then would you marry a man instead of finding a gf and then wife? Sounds like you need more time to explore all 9f this before even considering marrying a man! Have you dated any women? if not , why not?

Reply 36

kay09004

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i literally feel the exact same way as you and am also rly confused. Like dont get me wrong i respect lesbians and bi ppl but i just cant accept myself to be lesbian or bi and im scared i am.

Reply 37

Anonymous #4

Original post by Arianarose03

This will confuse a hell alot of people. Okay so here it goes,
I am straight. Like i love boys, obsessed with them and can fall in love so quickly with them. I see myself getting married to a boy, having kids with him ect. However much recently I’ve been getting attraction to girl but not in a romantic way at all... just sexually. I find them to be so hot and when ever i watch lesbian porn it turns me on alot!! Don’t get me wrong i think boys are so hot and i would definitely not turn them down but if i had to choose between a one night stand with a boy and one night stand with a girl i would choose the girl. I find myself fantasising about girls and i want to sleep with a girl (but I can’t because i am a restricted asian girl lol) anyways i enjoy thinking about girls in a sexual way but if i think about getting into a relationship with one I don’t really find it to be something i want. I used to have a lesbian best friend and i used to think alot about sleeping with her but never thought of being in a relationship with her... Is this a wrong feeling? What am i feeling? Am i even straight? I just need help.
Ps. I read something about being hetroromantic homosexual... is that an actual thing or is it fake? What do i tell people? Ugh I’m so confused! Helppp meee pleaseee!!