Men answer -My husbands not controlling it&#x27;s affection

Here’s some advice: Ex-husband.

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OP

Original post by officialmay

I’m honestly confused cuz I swear you went around full of pride saying you’re some perfect human being with the perfect husband and quiet ass life being a nikabi. Why in the world is your trolling inconsistent smh. The least you could do is keep that pridefully shameless front

End of the day aim still anonymous to Be married to a successful man At 19 is an accomplishment and as long advice in anonymous I will continue to seek help , again I'm better than I was before but I'm not a saint . To be honest I'm a victim but Atleast I've completed half my deen at such a young age SubhanAllah 💍

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Lewito

19

Probably trying to compensate for a teeny tiny todger

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Original post by Shisha s

End of the day aim still anonymous to Be married to a successful man At 19 is an accomplishment and as long advice in anonymous I will continue to seek help , again I'm better than I was before but I'm not a saint . To be honest I'm a victim but Atleast I've completed half my deen at such a young age SubhanAllah 💍

Getting married at 19 is an accomplishment????

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OP

Original post by The Mogg

Probably trying to compensate for a teeny tiny ****

Cosmopolitan has never let me down in regards to **** and marital issues before and It's true what they say small feet =small *^^ Anyways I just wanted to know If I was being abused out of hatred because I still love him , i did marry him after all

(edited 4 years ago)

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Anonymous #4

Original post by Shisha s

End of the day aim still anonymous to Be married to a successful man At 19 is an accomplishment and as long advice in anonymous I will continue to seek help , again I'm better than I was before but I'm not a saint . To be honest I'm a victim but Atleast I've completed half my deen at such a young age SubhanAllah 💍

Marrying isn’t half your deen 💀💀💀

The five pillars of Islam and the Koran is.

Leave this guy, Islam permits divorce when there is abuse and guess what? you’re a victim of abuse. What he’s doing is considered domestic abuse.

Successful man? You sound like a gold digger lmao

I honestly dislike women like you who look at a man’s hand to feed herself and can’t be bothered to do anything with herself as a human being. What are you without your husband then?

Go and learn to respect and love yourself

Divorce him before you end up having kids and it gets harder for you to leave.

It starts with spitting and pushing to pinching and kicking.

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officialmay

16

Half your deen? Didn’t you say he lied to you before you guys met about his age? Love, you basically dated or something before this marriage so clearly that doesn’t sound halal, sounds like you full on experienced the fun before marrying and now dealing with the consequence smh. ‘successful man,’ is this really the time to show off your husband when you’re moaning about his spitting on you - really?? You’re praising over this guy who’s mistreating you? Please, I want you to educate yourself about what a happy life is, not a successful one. And regardless of his being successful, it seems you’re not on the same range as you said you’re always quiet and can’t even socialise properly. This doesn’t look that successful on your side. I hope the best for you in the future, love x

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Anonymous #4

Original post by Shisha s

End of the day aim still anonymous to Be married to a successful man At 19 is an accomplishment and as long advice in anonymous I will continue to seek help , again I'm better than I was before but I'm not a saint . To be honest I'm a victim but Atleast I've completed half my deen at such a young age SubhanAllah 💍

Marrying is not an accomplishment you foolish girl.

The fact that u think a marriage is an accomplishment in ur life just tells what kind of person you are and how much you think you mount to.

Anyone can marry, even stupid and evil people find ppl to marry and you’ve unfortunately ending up marrying a stupid and cruel person.

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officialmay

16

Original post by Anonymous

Marrying isn’t half your deen 💀💀💀

The five pillars of Islam and the Koran is.

Leave this guy, Islam permits divorce when there is abuse and guess what? you’re a victim of abuse. What he’s doing is considered domestic abuse.

Successful man? You sound like a gold digger lmao

I honestly dislike women like you who look at a man’s hand to feed herself and can’t be bothered to do anything with herself as a human being. What are you without your husband then?

Go and learn to respect and love yourself

Divorce him before you end up having kids and it gets harder for you to leave.

It starts with spitting and pushing to pinching and kicking.

Exactly what I was thinking 😂😂 preach

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username4499734

20

I’m not saying to forget your deen etc but I think you’re still living with traditional thoughts as if you need a husband to be happy, and worse , just some random person that sounds like a douche, as your husband

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Anonymous #4

Original post by Anonymous

Getting married at 19 is an accomplishment????

Tell me about it. How pathetic. Anyone could get married.

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OP

Original post by Anonymous

Marrying isn’t half your deen 💀💀💀

The five pillars of Islam and the Koran is.

Leave this guy, Islam permits divorce when there is abuse and guess what? you’re a victim of abuse. What he’s doing is considered domestic abuse.

Successful man? You sound like a gold digger lmao

I honestly dislike women like you who look at a man’s hand to feed herself and can’t be bothered to do anything with herself as a human being. What are you without your husband then?

Go and learn to respect and love yourself

Divorce him before you end up having kids and it gets harder for you to leave.

It starts with spitting and pushing to pinching and kicking.

Successful as in he gives charity he used to be a sinner but has repented , he's successful in the eyes of Allah stop jumping to assumptions, thanks for the advice At the ends but the abuse is in the bedroom , he isn't actually a bad person and as his wife I have to fulfill his needs same him to me , no ?

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OP

Original post by Anonymous

Tell me about it. How pathetic. Anyone could get married.

In Islam yes because it stops the temptation of sin . The younger the better . It's like a virus catch it whilst sits early . Basically not sinning is the accomplishment

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Original post by Shisha s

Successful as in he gives charity he used to be a sinner but has repented , he's successful in the eyes of Allah stop jumping to assumptions, thanks for the advice At the ends but the abuse is in the bedroom , he isn't actually a bad person and as his wife I have to fulfill his needs same him to me , no ?

It’s good he does charity but I don’t think that overcomes his problems. And how can you so easily say he’s successful in the eyes of Allah, when you were just saying he basically treats you like sh*t

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