There’s this guy that I’ve been really good friends with for just over a year, however his jealous and insecure girlfriend is really starting to get in the way.
Our friendship isn’t what is used to be and it always feels like I’m treading on egg shells around him - ever since she came along there’s been countless arguments and drama between us three because she just can’t accept this friendship. Now the weird thing is I’ve tried to cut them both out of my life just because I really don’t have time for childish drama but one of them (yes even the girlfriend???) will almost always contact me for some reason.
The girlfriend will often start something from
nothing then act like the victim claiming it hurts her to be constantly stuck in the middle of an argument with her boyfriend because of me (baring in mind I’ve done nothing).
She’ll accuse me of liking him or him liking me crying about “I can tell there’s something there” when there clearing isn’t, I am in a relationship of my own and my boyfriend has not once said he felt this way and is completely okay with it. I don’t know what this girls problem is and I’m not sure what to do? I do like my friendship with this guy but at the same time if this is what I’m gonna have to put up with all the time then I don’t want to be friends, although no matter how hard I try to cut them both off they seem to drag me back into this toxicity. I’m stuck at what to do here ?