I told my crush i liked them but...

On the last day of school (last year) I told my straight friend (I'm gay) that I was gay and I had a crush on her, and she said that it's fine and we would still be friends. I didn't see her in the holidays. But since I've been back to School She's been acting a bit distant and has hardly spoke to me, but comes up to me and my friends and talks to them as though she's purposely ignoring me. I don't know if I'm being extremely paranoid, or if I've genuinely made her feel awkward. I still want to be friends with her and I don't even have a crush on her anymore, I need advice what do I do? I want things to go back to normal, I miss our old relationship.

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Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

ask her and confrnt her straight up why are u acting weird
be honest and tell her that u dont like her anymore
ask if its ok for u guys to be back

Just give it time

Original post by Anonymous

ask her and confrnt her straight up why are u acting weird
be honest and tell her that u dont like her anymore
ask if its ok for u guys to be back

I was thinking bout asking her but i dont want her to feel more awkward and what if she gets offended

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by holly6901

Just give it time

I'm not very patient with these situations

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I was thinking bout asking her but i dont want her to feel more awkward and what if she gets offended

try to talk to her normally
if things didnt get better, u have to ask her then

Reply 6

Seris

Well, she not gay. Also, she is probably still shocked that you just confessed to loving your straight friend.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by Seris

Well, she not gay. Also, she is probably still shocked that you just confessed to loving your straight friend.

I told her almost 2months ago i don't think she's still shocked

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

try to talk to her normally
if things didnt get better, u have to ask her then

Yh i think that might be better than just straight up asking her, but i don't know what to talk to her about

Reply 9

Seris

Ok, then what I will say is. Try and talk to her to clear the air.

Reply 10

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Yh i think that might be better than just straight up asking her, but i don't know what to talk to her about

"hi hru how is school, how was yr summer

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Original post by Seris

Ok, then what I will say is. Try and talk to her to clear the air.

i don't think she's gonna want to talk to me

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

"hi hru how is school, how was yr summer

My anxiety is getting worse just thinking about how that conversation is gonna end

Reply 13

Seris

Well how do you know she does not want to talk if you have not attempt to talk to her first to clear the air.

Reply 14

Anonymous #3

I am sorry to hear this.
I myself am in a similar situation however with me I am thinking of whether to tell her!

How old are you? :smile:

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

I am sorry to hear this.
I myself am in a similar situation however with me I am thinking of whether to tell her!

How old are you? :smile:

almost 16 wbu

Reply 16

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

almost 16 wbu

19. I would speak to your friend, maybe text her and tell her that you just wanted to be honest with her and they you hope things can still be like they were before. X

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

19. I would speak to your friend, maybe text her and tell her that you just wanted to be honest with her and they you hope things can still be like they were before. X

I think I might tell her in person, honestly I wish I never told her in the first place

Reply 18

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

I think I might tell her in person, honestly I wish I never told her in the first place

Hmmm. I am planning to tell my crush (she is gay too like me) but I am in the closet and she is married lol!
I wanted to just be honest with her and tell her that I still do have a crush on her! (Even though we are not the same age).
Do you think I should tell her over text or just leave it?