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I feel like people don’t like me

Hi,
i am 20 years currently doing an apprenticeship in childcare. I am Pakistani however i was born italy. I have an older sister and one younger brother and live with my family. I am very introvert person likes to stay inside than go outside due to anxiety and health problem. As for my health problem i was diagnosed with mitral regurgitation and currently living with it. I used to be a shy person in the past well i would say i am still i still feel panicked when talking to new people. I feel like no one likes me i don’t know i mean they would talk to me to not make me feel bad. No one really wants to talk maybe i think i am dumb or ugly. I like socialising with people maybe everyone thinks i am stupid. Plus i feel when i tell people about something that is going to happen or has happened they would just ignore me and when i am right no one really says yes u were right. Am i thinking too much?
defo, you shouldn't think about that, just overbearing over you. It would drain you and just be overbearing
Reply 2
Hey,

I have struggled in the past with my mental health too but have found that by talking to new people and exposing myself more, I've grown in confidence. Try speaking to your family and friends first because I'm sure all these feelings of self-doubt you have aren't what other people think of you. The more new people you talk to, the less it will feel. scary and daunting although I know how difficult it can be at first!

Thinking of conversation starters really helped me because they help conversations to flow better.

Try to remember people aren't as judgemental as you think they are as most people. criticise themselves more than anyone else. Everyone is unique.

Lots of love xoxo
Original post by NickMbugua
defo, you shouldn't think about that, just overbearing over you. It would drain you and just be overbearing


Well you are right maybe i have been thinking too much and overbearing my self😑
Original post by princess770
Hi,
i am 20 years currently doing an apprenticeship in childcare. I am Pakistani however i was born italy. I have an older sister and one younger brother and live with my family. I am very introvert person likes to stay inside than go outside due to anxiety and health problem. As for my health problem i was diagnosed with mitral regurgitation and currently living with it. I used to be a shy person in the past well i would say i am still i still feel panicked when talking to new people. I feel like no one likes me i don’t know i mean they would talk to me to not make me feel bad. No one really wants to talk maybe i think i am dumb or ugly. I like socialising with people maybe everyone thinks i am stupid. Plus i feel when i tell people about something that is going to happen or has happened they would just ignore me and when i am right no one really says yes u were right. Am i thinking too much?

First of all you're not alone with this situation of healthy issues. As for the 'everyone doesn't like you" i'm 100% sure that is not true and you are just over thinking. I'm introvert myself and stay indoor when i have nothing to do with the outside but yeah i do go for a walk and get a fresh air or hit the gym when am bored. The problem here isn't about people liking you, it's that you don't appreciate yourself and you put people first when you're supposed to be first always. You even think that you're 'dumb or ugly' you see how awful that is? Work on yourself please and stop caring about what other people think of you, what you think of yourself matters. You're in a bad level now for putting yourself down like that. As a introvert person i'm very disappointed of you, this is not how we know introverts.
Original post by thelocalkid
First of all you're not alone with this situation of healthy issues. As for the 'everyone doesn't like you" i'm 100% sure that is not true and you are just over thinking. I'm introvert myself and stay indoor when i have nothing to do with the outside but yeah i do go for a walk and get a fresh air or hit the gym when am bored. The problem here isn't about people liking you, it's that you don't appreciate yourself and you put people first when you're supposed to be first always. You even think that you're 'dumb or ugly' you see how awful that is? Work on yourself please and stop caring about what other people think of you, what you think of yourself matters. You're in a bad level now for putting yourself down like that. As a introvert person i'm very disappointed of you, this is not how we know introverts.


Thank you for the lovely words and advice from now on i am gonna work on myself and stop thinking what others feel or think about me. ☺️
You are most likely lovely and kind, you sound like a thoughtful person just from the post! Just try to be nice to the ppl around you :smile: pm me if u wanna chat lol im bored
I think you're overthinking it, it's going to be difficult trying to stop but I hope it works out well for you x :smile:

Original post by princess770
Hi,
i am 20 years currently doing an apprenticeship in childcare. I am Pakistani however i was born italy. I have an older sister and one younger brother and live with my family. I am very introvert person likes to stay inside than go outside due to anxiety and health problem. As for my health problem i was diagnosed with mitral regurgitation and currently living with it. I used to be a shy person in the past well i would say i am still i still feel panicked when talking to new people. I feel like no one likes me i don’t know i mean they would talk to me to not make me feel bad. No one really wants to talk maybe i think i am dumb or ugly. I like socialising with people maybe everyone thinks i am stupid. Plus i feel when i tell people about something that is going to happen or has happened they would just ignore me and when i am right no one really says yes u were right. Am i thinking too much?
Reply 8
Same, I relate to this so much.
Original post by SlightlySummer
I think you're overthinking it, it's going to be difficult trying to stop but I hope it works out well for you x :smile:



Thank you for the sweet words feel a bit better ☺️
Original post by Deggs_14
Same, I relate to this so much.


Are you in the similar situation?
Original post by princess770
Thank you for the lovely words and advice from now on i am gonna work on myself and stop thinking what others feel or think about me. ☺️

^this is how you need to be thinking sister. :biggrin:
I can somewhat relate to this thread. :colonhash:
Original post by -Quava-
I can somewhat relate to this thread. :colonhash:


How come? Remember u from the other thread Hehee
Original post by Christiantaylor
How come? Remember u from the other thread Hehee

You remember me because it was literally 5 minutes ago. :mmm:
Well, I am Pakistani, an introvert, get nervous talking to people, dont like going out and hold negative thoughts regarding myself.
Original post by thelocalkid
First of all you're not alone with this situation of healthy issues. As for the 'everyone doesn't like you" i'm 100% sure that is not true and you are just over thinking. I'm introvert myself and stay indoor when i have nothing to do with the outside but yeah i do go for a walk and get a fresh air or hit the gym when am bored. The problem here isn't about people liking you, it's that you don't appreciate yourself and you put people first when you're supposed to be first always. You even think that you're 'dumb or ugly' you see how awful that is? Work on yourself please and stop caring about what other people think of you, what you think of yourself matters. You're in a bad level now for putting yourself down like that. As a introvert person i'm very disappointed of you, this is not how we know introverts.

Can you be my life mentor? :cry2:
Original post by -Quava-
Can you be my life mentor? :cry2:

No you can be your mentor. PM me if you get bored.
Original post by princess770
Thank you for the lovely words and advice from now on i am gonna work on myself and stop thinking what others feel or think about me. ☺️

Glad i can help Queen :smile:

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