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I like white boys but white boys don’t like me

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Original post by angelike1
This yewande girl isn't attractive at all.

Even if she’s not your cup of tea
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, you don’t think she’s cute not even a little?
Original post by Anonymous
Even if she’s not your cup of tea
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, you don’t think she’s cute not even a little?

looks ok in that one but cherry picked compared to the much less flattering ones on Google images
Original post by angelike1
looks ok in that one but cherry picked compared to the much less flattering ones on Google images

Not every picture taken by paparazzi is going to look amazing. The ones taken by the love island were atrocious but she’s actually very pretty even if you don’t find her attractive yourself. I get beauty is subjective and all but scientifically speaking she’s not ugly, she has a symmetrical face, nice smile and she’s slim. Here’s one by paparazzi and not by herself and she looks pretty decent
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i honestly think i fair amount of white guys to black guys liked me, maybe even more white guys tbh lol, it's just sometimes they're not vocal about it/are a bit nervous to approach me. mixed raced guys hardly but it's less likely about race and probably more to do with the type of guy you're talking about
Reply 84
City girlz lose 1000 Points just for this thread. Don't @ me.
Original post by Anonymous
i honestly think i fair amount of white guys to black guys liked me, maybe even more white guys tbh lol, it's just sometimes they're not vocal about it/are a bit nervous to approach me. mixed raced guys hardly but it's less likely about race and probably more to do with the type of guy you're talking about

Yes I’ve had white guys who’ve liked me but majority that have liked me is because of their fetish. Saying I’m attractive for a black girl, that I have blowjob lips because of my huge lips, asking if I’m good in bed because I’m black, saying that they watch ebony porn and think of me is not good enough for me! I need to be respected
Original post by Anonymous
so? you can't make them like you. i've seen loads of white guys with brown girls (pakistani/iranian/indian) but you still get some white guys who are with black girls. white guys normally go for whites or indian/iranian/pakistani girls


Not over here, it’s mostly either white guys with white girls or mixed raced girls. London.
Original post by Anonymous
Yes I’ve had white guys who’ve liked me but majority that have liked me is because of their fetish. Saying I’m attractive for a black girl, that I have blowjob lips because of my huge lips, asking if I’m good in bed because I’m black, saying that they watch ebony porn and think of me is not good enough for me! I need to be respected


wow i can't say i've had someone say that to me, i mean some have said ignorant things but i think they were nervous and just wanted to be nice. Most white guys i have encountered have been nice tbh
Original post by Anonymous
wow i can't say i've had someone say that to me, i mean some have said ignorant things but i think they were nervous and just wanted to be nice. Most white guys i have encountered have been nice tbh

I get not everyone is going to say the right things sometimes, some don’t mean it to be malicious but that just puts me off. I have a very low tolerance for those type of comments.
Original post by Anonymous
Not every picture taken by paparazzi is going to look amazing. The ones taken by the love island were atrocious but she’s actually very pretty even if you don’t find her attractive yourself. I get beauty is subjective and all but scientifically speaking she’s not ugly, she has a symmetrical face, nice smile and she’s slim. Here’s one by paparazzi and not by herself and she looks pretty decent
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meh not really - cant imagine her doing runway
Original post by angelike1
meh not really - cant imagine her doing runway

Fair enough, what don’t you find attractive about her? It is the nose? her eyes? her petite figure? her small boobs? Small bum? etc?
Original post by Anonymous
Fair enough, what don’t you find attractive about her? It is the nose? her eyes? her petite figure? her small boobs? Small bum? etc?

Lips too big - nose is on the larger side, smile is a bit wide, and lacks femininity in general.
Original post by SlightlySummer
How did you just generalise a whole race like that 💀

issa joke love
Original post by Anonymous
Fair enough, what don’t you find attractive about her? It is the nose? her eyes? her petite figure? her small boobs? Small bum? etc?

Honestly I don't think it's reliable to judge someone by if their features are "scientificaly attractive", it depends how those features all fit together. A woman may have large nose, square face etc. but if it is in proportion and suits the rest of her face it can be attractive. For example arabell from love island has a manly shaped face but she is still rly attractive when compared to yewande for example. Personally I find white girls more attractive in general, not because they are white necessarily, but because of their features and how the whole look comes together. The surfing girl was by far the most beautiful on love Island, and the girl who won wasn't that attractive imo. All comes down to personal taste in the end.

Btw if u hadn't guessed, I'm a white guy. Anon bc it's a potentially controversial topic :tongue:
Original post by Anonymous
Honestly I don't think it's reliable to judge someone by if their features are "scientificaly attractive", it depends how those features all fit together. A woman may have large nose, square face etc. but if it is in proportion and suits the rest of her face it can be attractive. For example arabell from love island has a manly shaped face but she is still rly attractive when compared to yewande for example. Personally I find white girls more attractive in general, not because they are white necessarily, but because of their features and how the whole look comes together. The surfing girl was by far the most beautiful on love Island, and the girl who won wasn't that attractive imo. All comes down to personal taste in the end.

Btw if u hadn't guessed, I'm a white guy. Anon bc it's a potentially controversial topic :tongue:

Sorry but I’m more inclined to believe science over a personal opinion which can easily be swayed. Her features are proportional to her face, she has Afrocentric features. Big noses and big lips pair each other well, girls with small noses who get lip fillers always look ridiculous because it doesn’t suit their face and it was never meant for their face. Arabella's features suit her well. You only think white women have better features because of your unconscious bias. As much as you may think, we don’t have any free will in regards to what we find or we don’t find attractive. You’ve grown up in a white country, with white friends, a white family, in a white school. Your porn is white and the tv shows you watch probably have a predominantly white cast. I don’t know about your music taste but you’ve probably grown up watching white singers. The cover of your FHM magazine is a white woman. The relationships you’ve seen are usually between a white woman and a white man. Of course, you’d say white girls are the most attractive to you. Beauty ideals are just a social construct, not long ago having a big bum and being over size 12 made you undesirable, now it’s fashionable to be “thick”. Girls are literally paying surgery to look like an ant because some multimillionaire in Malibu made it look cool. If tomorrow the Kardashian’s said that big noses were sexy, I bet you 100% that girls all over would get prosthetics or surgery to have one. I’m not attacking your preference or calling you racist btw, I just want people to think more deeply about what we think as attractive.
Reply 95
Black girls are not as pretty as white girls and Asian girls. But how a girl look is not important.
Do you like Chinese boys? I think some Chinese boys may like you.
Which university are you in? What do you major in? Do you study well?

Where are you from?
You might think that they aren’t interested, but maybe they are? Try flirting with one of them and see what happens. (But no means no, only yes mean yes)
Original post by Discrepancy
Not over here, it’s mostly either white guys with white girls or mixed raced girls. London.

I think that maybe a South Asian majority area as most white guys go for white girls. Its not equal with South Asian girls.
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Original post by Anonymous
I can’t seem to find any white guys who are attracted to black girls. Most white guys I’ve encountered only date within their race and the rest will fetishise me, will want to sleep me but will never want to make me their girlfriend bc they’re embarrassed of what their family/friends will think. I live in a small city, where there’s hardly any black people so I’ve struggled to date within my race. I’ve tried using tinder and other dating apps but everyone is just looking for sex and nothing serious. In real life, I’ll only get approached by white men if I have a weave especially when I have blonde hair, I get a lot attention. I’m scared to make the first move in case I get rejected. It really messes with my self esteem because I feel like I’m not good enough for anyone. I’m 20 years old, I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m feeling like I’m going to be alone forever. Seeing all my friends in serious relationships just reinforces those thoughts. I wish someone would just like me for who I am.

I understand what you’re saying but perhaps you should try to move to London or a bigger city because not all white boys are just going to fetishise you and not all have racist families and whatnot.

I really wish you luck with this!
Original post by Anonymous
Honestly I don't think it's reliable to judge someone by if their features are "scientificaly attractive", it depends how those features all fit together. A woman may have large nose, square face etc. but if it is in proportion and suits the rest of her face it can be attractive. For example arabell from love island has a manly shaped face but she is still rly attractive when compared to yewande for example. Personally I find white girls more attractive in general, not because they are white necessarily, but because of their features and how the whole look comes together. The surfing girl was by far the most beautiful on love Island, and the girl who won wasn't that attractive imo. All comes down to personal taste in the end.

Btw if u hadn't guessed, I'm a white guy. Anon bc it's a potentially controversial topic :tongue:


amber is absolutely banging, skin tone, hair, boobs, bum, facial features, how could you not find her attractive at least a bit. personally lucy always looked like she was crying and that baby voice was irritating, none of her features really popped to me, except her boobs.

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