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From what I can gather the vast majority of people just want to get it out of the way

From what I can gather the vast majority of people just want to get it out of the way and are accepting of both what others feel and the result of the referendum.

Seriously?!

I'm curious as to how many people on here regularly encounter others with opposing views on Brexit and if this is the case then how do you get on these people.
I myself have a few family members and friends who are remainers, but when discussing the rights and wrongs of each others views we have never fallen out.
From what I can gather the vast majority of people just want to get it out of the way and are accepting of both what others feel and the result of the referendum.
Is mine an isolated experience or is it what is actually the state of play in the nation?

In my experience this (and similar expressions) is a common attitude, but it disguises that Remainers and Leavers mean different things by it.

There is a strong desire on behalf of both to "move on", but Leavers mean "Let's just leave and move on" whereas Remainers mean "Let's just give up on Brexit and move on". Both hate the current impasse but somehow believe that the divisions will be miraculously healed if only their way prevails.

There are only three ways I see the impasse ending:
i) Either Johnson, Corbyn, or another Labour or Tory leader, bites the bullet and pushes an incredibly unpopular Withdrawal Agreement through parliament, because it's ultimately the responsible thing to do. This establishes a new status quo with the UK outside the EU, and puts the issue enough into the background for politics to move on.
ii) We crash out with no deal. Short-term economic chaos for several weeks is eventually resolved with a set of deals much more favourable to the EU, likely certain independence for Scotland and possible Irish unification, and Brexit as a political cause discredited and toxified as the UK drifts back into the EU over the 2020s.
iii) Pro-Remain parties are, by luck, somehow able to repeatedly grind out parliamentary majorities until a point comes where, due to older Leave supporters dying off and younger Remain supporters coming of age, Leavers no longer stand any hope of numerical victory.

iii) is probably the least likely, imo.

Yes, even to the point of a conversation with 2 who I know voted remain in the referendum stating they would now vote to leave if another referendum were to happen because the issue will only get worse if we don't actually leave now.
I understand that this is only anecdotal evidence but I also know myself that the conversation actually took place.

Most of the people I know are on the same page (remainers) but I do know a few Brexiteers, all of whom are very decent people who are open to having an intelligent discussion about what we do and don’t agree on. My opinion of them hasn’t changed because of their views on this matter, they’re still good people even if we don’t agree on this particular point.

iii) until a point comes where, due to older Leave supporters dying off and younger Remain supporters coming of age, Leavers no longer stand any hope of numerical victory.

Yes, even to the point of a conversation with 2 who I know voted remain in the referendum stating they would now vote to leave if another referendum were to happen because the issue will only get worse if we don't actually leave now.
I understand that this is only anecdotal evidence but I also know myself that the conversation actually took place.

it would also require the general public to just keep accepting the fact that politicians don't want to listen to what we think,

Most of the people I know are on the same page (remainers) but I do know a few Brexiteers, all of whom are very decent people who are open to having an intelligent discussion about what we do and don’t agree on. My opinion of them hasn’t changed because of their views on this matter, they’re still good people even if we don’t agree on this particular point.

If parliament voted to revoke A50, they would be doing exactly what myself and many millions of others (otherwise known as "the people" ) want.

This is the fundamental problem with Leavers. They assume to speak for the entire country. Newsflash - they do not. At least half of the adult population wants to Remain, and politicians working to achieve Remain are listening to what that half of the people thinks.

I know two Leavers (through a mutual acquaintance) who are appalling racists who regularly share stuff from far right groups on social media. They are unapologetic about their position on Brexit, which is simple xenophobia.