I experienced the most humiliating night of my life last week end. Let me give some background information. I’ve been seeing this girl, Reen for about 5 weeks and we have really hit it off! She walked up to me on campus one day and said hi and we have spent every spare second together ever since. Well, last Friday, I went to pick her up at her dorm to go to a club. She had more makeup than usual and her hair was made up really nice and she was as cold and hateful to me like she despised me. No smile, no warmth, no touch! Well we arrived at the club and when I parked I looked at her and said “ you act like you don’t want me anymore!” She immediately replied “ you’ll do until someone better comes along!” Holy crap! I should have just dropped her off, but we went in, I paid for the cover and her beer as usual and we found a group of her friends and we sat with them.
Now the fun part begins! She has a few and announces she was “Mo D”, her nick name for Maureen D.last name, and says she’s here to party!!! Then she says that she should sell kisses for a quarter! Well everyone thought that was outrages and hilarious! To the the disbelief of everyone, she sells a kiss to a stud across the isle. I just sat there smiling nervously! She then went up an isle of tables and sold 3 more, came back and sold one to the first guy! I just sat there!
I should have left, but I didn’t want to lose someone who had brought so much happiness to my life, so I just sat there! We stayed till closing and she said stud dude said there was an after hours party and we should follow them. Well, we got to the car and I decided to just take her home. I expected her to make dumping me official at any time, but she started being nice for the first time all night. We parked in a drop off zone at 3am to let her out. Instead we had a great make out session like nothing had ever happened! She never did tell me it was over.
Now she’s gone on a 3 day volleyball trip. She’s texted like nothing ever happened. I’m so confused because like I said, we spent every spare second together the last 5 weeks!
After thinking about it 24/7 my theory is that she was falling in love with me, but because I’m not the athlete she was used to, she was conflicted! I think she thought if she humiliated me, I would get mad and leave and conflict would be over. I don’t know!
Need advice!