Feel sooo guilty for sleeping with him

Yeah!

And what exactly have you done to seek forgiveness?

what tempted you to do it, do u just find him really peng or did he approach u in a certain way ifydm answering

No, I meant what have you done after, to repent your zina?
So you say...

Lol well clearly this situation requires a level emotional maturity which is severely lacking in this thread...

Lol well clearly this situation requires a level emotional maturity which is severely lacking in this thread...

Emotional Maturity ? You having a laugh ?

It's clear OP isn't actually sorry in any way and refuses to take accountability for her actions, yet she's supposedly asking to be forgiven.

She's about as emotionally immature as you get and deserves just as much.

How am I not sorry? What have I said to suggest that?!

I’ll definitely try, Ive always said that I would neverrr do something like this in a million years until I was married, but honestly its like all my self control went flying out the window

The regret afterwards is really not worth it

So, my friend just recently broke up with her boyfriend of two years like a month ago

Last week, I was at one of my friends uni accom and he happened to be there too, and we ended up sleeping together!

Like wtf, I always found him attractive and my friend knew that I did too (hes just one of those that most people with eyes would find fit) but I cant believe I slept with him!

I feel sooo guilty, shes my friend and I slept with her very recent ex! Not only that, I’m Muslim and wear a hijab too so I never expected this to happen...

Do I tell her or WHAT??

Well, I really don't know what to say to you, at least you've tried to repent. I really don't know why you did it with the guy when he wasn't even your bf. Zina is a trap, whether it's dating or not- you have to resist it. If I can, you can. Trust me I know how hard it is, but I prioritise my faith over teenage boys.
Have you told your parents?

It's ok, everyone makes mistakes.
A few of my friends ask for forgiveness then do the rule of threes whenever they do something they regret (doing three good deeds hoping to mitigate personal guilt and other consequences of their mistake).

The guy sound a bit opportunistic to me; getting involved with your friend first for a couple of years, then breaking up with her and moving onto you.
Is he a friend that you feel you can trust?
Hot guys are usually more hassle than they are worth.
They are charming and always look good but rarely offer anything else- anything positive that is.
Don't make for loving loyal husbands or reliable caring fathers.

Have you been for a health checkup to make sure that you are ok?
You don't have to tell your friend about your private life or her ex's, their relationship ended.
But as a general rule it is best to avoid getting too close with: friends ex's, male friends, guys you work with and guys you live close to.
Good luck!

Well, I really don't know what to say to you, at least you've tried to repent. I really don't know why you did it with the guy when he wasn't even your bf. Zina is a trap, whether it's dating or not- you have to resist it. If I can, you can. Trust me I know how hard it is, but I prioritise my faith over teenage boys.
Have you told your parents?

as far as I know hes only ever slept with her and that was only once (which makes it even more bizarre that he slept with me) and shes only ever slept with him, so do I need to get checked? I dont even know where to?

Don't be silly, telling her parents is the worst thing she could do - pretty sure there's been cases in the UK where Muslim parents have tried to kill their kids for this - not even being racist

Thats just f*ucked up. Psycho parents like that are basically sinning themselves for murdering their child for sinning and they regard themselves as "religious" pfffft.