Yes, it's due to your race. When clubbing in London I usually go to "white" mainstreme clubs because my friend literally refuses to try anything else or go into non white areas. I am black. I get little eye contact in clubs, there is normally no reaction from the girls when I look at them, or sometimes they just look at me hostily. When I cold approach white girls I just get shot down. The only time I pull is when white girls approach me, which happens from time to time but not as much as i'd like.
The few rare times i've approached black girls they were FAR more receptive. I remember approaching one and grinding on her 5 minutes later. That was never happened with a white girl. Sure i've grinded on a white girl but they were the ones to approach me.
Here are some statistics about race and dating. Ignore the title it's not quite correct
https://imgur.com/A50EPtlAs you can see as an ethnic minority [prusumably going for white girls] you are facing massive exclusion rates. Tbh east asian guys probably have the worst when it comes to white girls.
- 46% of white women only are open to other white men.
There was a big okcupid datacrunch with statistics which said 55% of white women would strongly prefer to date their own race. This although a slightly differant worded statement it fits well with the 46% of white women only date white men statistic so they are probably right.
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For every 10 white women you approach, around 5 of them are ruling you out on race alone. When you also factor in most women are going to be taken [65%], that means for every 100 white women you approach, only 17 are in a position where they are single, and haven't ruled you out on race. If you approach 10 white women that night, then statistically just under 2 will be single and not ruling you out on race. Whereas for your white friends statistically 3 or 4 will be single and open to them, statistically all of these girls will not be ruling them out on race and in addition half of them will have a racial preferance for your friends [further increasing their chances]. I am not surprised you are doing so poorly compared to your friends, the numbers are not in your favour.
If you are east asain cold approaching white girls, then realistically speaking i'd expect about 1 in 20+ girls to be receptive to advances [as in willing to at least give phone number]. since statistically 3 girls out of 20 are both single and haven't ruled you out on race. You will probably get more though who will flirt ..but due to them being taken it is unlikely to go further.
If you've actually had some decent eye contact before you approach though, then this is no longer a cold approach, but is now a warm approach and chances of success will be higher than what i've stated.
Perhaps try and go to more clubs with east asian women and you'll do somewhat better than you are doing, althought tbh you are still at a disadvantage compared to your white friends if you look at the statistics as your own women seem to value them more you than you...
If you don't do that then keep using the eye contact method, and accept that very few girls are likely to give you eye contact back. but with those that do, you've got a resonable chance.