Feeling insecure when it comes to white girls

A few months ago I found out that a guy I liked, likes white girls.

After hearing this and other stuff, I started to view myself in a small way.

why does someone having a racial preference that includes you make you feel worse?

Because I liked him.

I can't say for sure, but I didn't know he had a preference. I got told and then I realised that he probably didn't go for me because he just wouldn't go for someone like me.

did you ever make a move on him, or even spend time with him?

There are white guys who also like brown and black girls. There's a lot of fish in the ocean. Don't rush, don't worry.

It is just that I had the impression he did.

But after learning some stuff I started to view myself in a small way.

I'm sorry to hear. What makes you view yourself in a small way due to his preference?

To be honest in my view white girls are pretty and I feel as if he wouldn't go for me not because of this but because he probably wouldn't want someone like me.

But there's nothing wrong with you. And it's okay if he doesn't feel romantically connected to you.

It's perfectly fine, I just thought he did.

Thanks though

Very few women have a preference for white guys over other ethnicities. Although some women will consider a white guy if he is a babyfaced prettyboy (but will view ugly masculine or mature-faced white men as unattractive)

It sounds like you were fixated on a guy who was in the top 10% in terms of physical appearance and personality. So he might have a few dating options while the majority of men dont have any options.

This is funny to me because I'm white (well actually I'm a Semite/Jew) but I only have a preference for brown skinned girls. This is a matter of taste and you shouldn't feel that every single boy out there likes a white girl, because people like me have a different preference

My problem was he gave signs and now I just feel crap, I feel as if I should have made more effort