I would say I'm a lesbian. If I said this aloud I would get disowned.
However, when I think about my sexuality. I worry because all I know is that I do not fancy men (I'm a girl!) I have no interest in men whatsoever. The thought of having to spend my life with a man, makes me uncomfortable.
But, I think, I don't fit into lesbian stereotypes
I don't have short, shoulder length hair, I'm not very masculine (or feminine). I don't like wearing caps.
It makes me think who am I? What am I?
I have medium length hair, I'm neither very feminine or masculine, the only sport I like is basketball, I like reading books, I'm an introvert. I cant sit with one leg over the other, lol. This is just me and who I am. Does this not make me a lesbian? Despite me knowing I'm not attracted to men? The thought of being with a man actually makes me sick!
it makes me upset. Do other lesbians like me exist who do not have short hair or fit into this 'tomboy' stereotype? I'm not a girly girl either, I dislike wearing makeup and will only wear it if I have to for weddings etc.
Thank you.