Original post by AmazingPhysicistHi I'm a boy aged 18 years 5 months, just started uni on 30th September
What are the most important qualities girls would look for in a boy?
What about kindness?
I would argue kindness, honesty and sincerity are more important than height or physical strength etc
What about brain problems (getting angry too easily, low self-esteem, hates society, etc)
Would you respect a boy if he was like me: kind, honest, sincere and did his best no matter what, even though he can't talk to people properly, doesnt drink or party, doesnt go to the gym, is skinny, underweight, shy, has terrible eyesight, has 7 food intolerances, doesnt want to have sex until marriage, would you consider liking or respecting him
My biggest fear is that no girl would ever love me because Im short skinny weak and shy, girls apparently dont dig that stuff, I also don't have a very good sense of humour, dont drink tea or coffee, not rich, not living an extravagant lifestyle, dont have much facial hair or pubic hair, no car, no driving license, like star wars and hate football, take things too seriously sometimes, way too hard on myself, very low self esteem, anxiety, worry too much about everything, dislike society etc, would you still like me. This is a genuine thing I worry about because I don't think anyone would like a boy like me. I don't think I deserve love. I think i deserve to be lonely because i have all these terrible qualities