Gone off a girl after sex?

Well it's clear what's happened there. You thought you 'really liked her' but it was just lust. That happens to a lot of guys.

Am I alone here or is what I’m going through normal?

Really liked a girl and thought I could have a serious relationship but now that we’ve had sex a few times I’ve kinda gone off her and feel like a ********.

Trouble is I’m already going out with her so if I break up now I’ll feel like a ********, she has a banging personality but idk

Good to know I’m not alone lol

You're not alone. This happened multiple times with me. Once we've done the "deed", I just want her out however harsh that sounds.

Well there's no point in being together, cause if you're not in love.. it's only going to complicate your relationship overtime and she might get even more attached to you than she's now.
Soo being a girl I'll suggest that breakup ASAP or she'll be badly hurt.
P.S. don't be completely honest about this reason... she might hate you forever if shr has feelings for you.
Hope it helps. ❤

Why have you gone off her?

If it's because of some shallow thing, like she has armpit hair, then I'd suggest you try giving being more tolerant a go and see how things develop.

If it's for a deeper thing, like the 2 of you are sexually incompatible, then I'd suggest politely but firmly ending the relationship.

Did u have feelings for her/them before the deed like I did for her? I find it weird how my feelings switched and I just can’t help it.

Am I alone here or is what I’m going through normal?

Really liked a girl and thought I could have a serious relationship but now that we’ve had sex a few times I’ve kinda gone off her and feel like a ********.

Did you have sex really early when you met her? Its different for me, i have to really like a girl to have a decent sex session with. cannot tell you the amount of times ive flopped during intercourse with a girl ive rushed it with. The two that i finished with were girlfriends that i got to know for around a month before sleeping with them

Yep I did, but then it immediately switched off when we've done it.

What happened? Did you get a waft of that crotch? The fishy stench was it? All guys need to carry out the scratch and sniff test first.

Nah I’ve known her since April/May so idk if that counts as fast for u?

Ah, no that doesn't in my opinion. I do know the feeling, just my ick happens once i get to that moment of putting it in, i feel unattracted to them. I find i have to have extreme sexual desire to shag, my mates are different however, most would sleep with anything. I honestly believe if i wasnt 'feeling' it with even margot robbie, id flop. Its depressing at times because its embarassing and they take it personally, however the best two looking girls ive actually finished with have ended up being girlfriends and in my subjective opinion, the more sexually desirable. This is vain but its how i see the situation. I think its different for some guys, altho we want a girl we get along with and like you say you do, physical attraction always needs to be there. Our s**t still gotta work, a girl can just lay there. I kind of think its theless important for a girl. In general of course. Possibly try being gentle when you speak to her, ask her what shes feeling about you, she may come out with 'OMG YOUR AMAZING THE FITTEST GUY EVER' - your feelings may change. You wont feel like a legend anymore, your feel like a myth. and you may just quite like hearing that from this girl.

Ye ye I get u 100%. Ive always been much pickier than my friends as well. I think I do like the attention she gives me and she is the one that basically came after me first. I’m gunna try say to her that not all relationships are meant to last long and see what she thinks.

This is a good idea. She come across as the type to 'be scared of being alone'?