These girls are obviously not your ‘friends for life’ to begin with. Sorry that each of them cut you off in their own way. Usually this happens before a big jump in your teenage life - going to 6th form or uni. Some people change. It’s not really anyone’s fault - apart from the one who called you a slut... that’s kinda out of order and down to interpretation 2bh so whatever she has labelled you as, is just her opinion - not fact!
I think you should stop trying - sounds like you’re trying too hard and too much.
It sucks when the friends you have aren’t in the same school or uni or job as you. I feel you. You’re not alone trust
i was the same same way for a few months in year 12 but eventually randomly reconnected with a few old buddies from Year 9! And it worked. We became a group. And the old girls who kinda drifted from me had also made new friends - and we all just sorta moved on I guess. I never looked back! I watched a lot of YouTube videos for video games and Kpop cuz I was just getting into Kpop. I would read or do studying at lunch or during free / study periods. I mean the most important thing right now is you cuz you never get 6th form back so use this isolation phase to your advantage and just study study study. Your education is your armour.
And eventually trust me, you’ll find your tribe.
Maybe get closer to people in your classes? You probably have team projects or have to work with someone for at least one of your subjects? Use that as an excuse to study during frees or study periods together. Or go round each other’s houses after school or on weekends. Try and find something you both have in common and use that to spur up conversations. Eventually the other person you’re trying to make friends with will come around. If not then move onto the next person.
2bh during our parents’ times they didn’t have mobile phones to keep them busy. So imagine their feeling of loneliness lol. They probably got lost in a comic or a book or did puzzles. I do a lot of puzzles to keep my head sane when I cba to talk to anyone @ lunch — that’s also another idea.
if you find you’re not making friends as quickly as others, do not let it affect your confidence or self esteem. There is nothing wrong with you! You’re fine
it’s just those girls were not your tribe to begin with probably. Their loss will be someone else’s gain.
Its only december so maybe come the new year, things will change. As exam period comes people would want to form study groups and that way you can make friends - just make sure people aren’t fully there just to use you and your smarts tho. Always have a guard up - but obvs don’t be paranoid lol.
Also feel free to PM me any time during these periods you feel lonely. Or if you need any other advice. I have been in your shoes and most likely loads of people have. Remember loenlines won’t kill you - it’ll just make you stronger .... it’s good that you have friends outside of school otherwise it would be more difficult. Make sure you make time for these people to discuss your worries with - hanging out with them on weekends will suppress the loneliness you’re feeling during the week