Im a failure

It's not too late to change all of that. People fail their theory a ton of times, your score wasn't even that bad.


However, I also failed everything hun.

What did you get when you failed ? And ill just feel embarassed about how many times ive taken it also it i just going to delay me passing my pratical. Im 18, time is just going so fast then one day im just going to wake up and ill be like 20 still like this. I just think im going to have a bad future.

Hey, it's okay. You have time to put things right. Society pressures people into having their lives together at such a young age and it seems as though you have the want to improve things in your life which is always an amazing first step and can sometimes be the hardest.

Failing your theory test- its something that happens to SO many people. I'm sure i saw a statistic on the DVLA website that around 50% fail first time. Have you recognised which areas you need to revise for? Do you know where you need to improve? Those scores you said were not bad at all! you were so close to passing! When it comes to resitting, look into how to reschedule without losing your test fee so that worst case scenario if you haven;t done any revision, you don't have to sit it. It's all on the website.

Driving lessons- it takes time. it's not easy it's certainly not cheap. how many lessons have you had? what was your instructors advice?

GCSEs- your teacher was mean to say that. as a teacher you are supposed to encourage your students. could you resit a couple to get the grades you need to reapply to this apprenticeship? prove them all wrong!

college- its tough. apologies, i just read that you are in college, ignore the gcse bit if you feel it doesnt apply. focus on the now, ignore the past grades. its your latest grades that matter more. find out where youre going wrong and fix it. it's wayy easier said than done but it's worth a shot. past papers are your best friend

there's your whole life for having a partner, i don't think success is based of whether you have a girlfriend yet. they will come, i know it;s a cliche but timing is everything.

hope this helped, let me know if you need any more advice! good luck! (remember, prove everyone wrong)

I trend looking at the areas i failed on the 1st time it was the road signs so pratised them but now it says on the paper i got 1 queston out of each area wrong this time. I have been using the offical dvla app 2019 and have spending hours pratising mock tests i was getting high marks on them but i get fails as well. Im not sure how many lessons i just have been learning for just over a year, i switched to auto at the start of summer but doing ok with it my instructor want to do a 5 day course of driving when i pass my theory but i just have failed twice. My instructor said hell start the 5 day course when i pass the theory then i can go in for my pratical after the course.

Do you think it's because of test anxiety or nervousness on the day? have you discussed this with your instructor? they are better trained than me to give advice on theory tests. it's good that you've been using the official app though!
its good that you have a plan for your practical though, good to think ahead.

hey dont look at all the negative things in life look at the bright side of things!

I was pretty anxious on the ay i just dont know i it was i due to that though. I just am really worried about failing it again its going to be embarassing and it just going to make me more anxious. Im worried i wont be able to drive and if that was what actually going to happen i really dont know i would do i hate walking and public transport. Id feel really down just walking or waiting for public transport to get me home from a dead end job i would feel happy about any job

there u go think of all of us, next time u take the tests, were all confident in u!

Maybe don't tell anyone apart from a couple of trusted people so theres no pressure? failing a theory isn't embarrassing, i promise you. if it was easy to pass, it wouldn't exist. just remember, the dvla want you to pass, they want to make you safe on the roads. try not to worry about failing before hand, it'll only make you feel worse.

I dont know if it make any diffrence

Its just no one in person knows how i am i might get worse next time

trust me, attitude is everything. the more positive you feel about things, the more positive changes you can make. it sounds ridiculous i know. law of attraction

no one is forcing you to these courses, ur doing them because u want to suceed in life, youll see, its all worth it at the end and you will look back and remember how hard u worked to get the results! and feel much much better then anybody doing who gets straight A's or pass without trying.