This girl and I know each other for a while now, we get on well in real life but on the internet she would ignore my texts, even though I only ever asked her about assignments and stuff regarding college. Anyways I managed to get her number (asked her irl) and sent her a text about class which again she would ignore.
After a while I felt a bit disrespected and would completely blank her in real life when we see each other. You can tell she would look my way to say hi but I wouldn’t even give her eye contact. This continued for a few days, and one other time I felt like I overdid it because we were talking in a group and I was flirting with everyone in the room (mostly girls) without acknowledging her, and you can tell she was visibly upset. I felt bad, so the next day I greeted her and sent her a message saying that this is our last year in college and I don’t want you to have a bad impression of me, I wanted us to be talking and become friends etc. This time she called me on the phone and was really nice to me, saying that the reason she wouldn’t respond to me or any other guy she knows in college over text was that she has a boyfriend. I made sure I was understanding and told her no problem and that I would delete her number. All was over on a good note, right?
Well to my surprise she texted me out of nowhere a few days ago telling me that i’m a great person and that if I need anything for classes etc she would have no problem replying. All this after a few weeks ago we supposedly cleared the air and everything was cool and especially after she wouldn’t respond to my texts about class previously. Why would she suddenly be so open now?
Don’t worry i’m not deluded, she most likely hasn’t broken up with her bf and I haven’t even re-saved her number, but I asked a female friend and she told me that maybe she told her boyfriend and he was okay with us texting about class, which I find confusing. Why would he be suddenly be okay with her having my number and asking about class if he literally isn’t okay with anyone talking to her over text? I mean if he was initially worried that I would start the convo with questions about class and escalate from there, why would he stop worrying now? It’s just a strange situation imo. What do you think?