Girls, would you do this?

If your bf kept you a secret from his family (because his parents are strict) would you mind staying over his most nights?? (at university, so they wouldn't know)

I know other girls that have done stuff like this - I personally wouldn't hide my girl from my family even though they are strict, unless I wasn't serious

SORRY I meant other guys

Ah okay. Were they not very serious?

He basically wants to have his cake and eat it doesn’t he? A warm bed during term time but no uncomfortable conversations with his family. What about the longer term? Will he just walk away and marry who his family tells him to, and drop you? I know not everyone is thinking longer term, but it sounds like you’re just going to get used then get hurt. Nope.

He basically wants to have his cake and eat it doesn’t he? A warm bed during term time but no uncomfortable conversations with his family. What about the longer term? Will he just walk away and marry who his family tells him to, and drop you? I know not everyone is thinking longer term, but it sounds like you’re just going to get used then get hurt. Nope.

Bump

He’s not really using me if I’m his girlfriend

It depends on what you’re looking for I guess. If you’re looking for someone to hang out with at uni then all’s good. If you’re looking for something deeper and long term then a guy that’s hiding you from his family is probably not your best bet. I wouldn’t put up with it, been there done that when I was younger, he walked rather than tell them about me, I was left with a lot of pain. x